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Old Sep 26, 2010, 03:05 AM
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Fear has set in, I don't know what to do or who to see. I"m in a new place and I want the old places, where I know who to see. I don't even know where I fit in. I have done some SI but have been thinking about cutting even more now.... first step getting something that will cut. For now I have resulted to other methods. I don't know what to do..... The Voices say to hurt myself and they show me different ways but I'm trying not to follow them but I'm not for sure how much longer I can hold on.

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Old Sep 26, 2010, 03:16 AM
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Being in a new place is distressing. Of course you know that with time your new place will become more familiar. I know that you have all sorts of things that you do to help yourself. One I remember is exercise. What can you do for yourself right now that will help?
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Old Sep 26, 2010, 03:30 AM
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Not much because I don't want to do anything. I'm tired of dealing with this, I just want to curly up and..... anyone could feel in the blank, I don't want to deal with people finding out that I was discriminated against and that's coming tomorrow. I Just don't want to deal with it. Work was even hard, and that always takes my mind of things.
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Old Sep 26, 2010, 03:39 AM
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What is coming tomorrow about people finding out about the discrimination?
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Old Sep 26, 2010, 04:51 PM
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Just being around people my age for once but now I just can't, I can't get to work on anything, I feel so empty.
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Old Sep 27, 2010, 08:21 AM
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What happened to you with the school is a big blow. Anyone would have all sorts of feelings about this - anger, sadness, mourning, etc. Maybe you feel empty because you are stuffing or not tuning into your feelings about what happened?
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Old Oct 03, 2010, 10:45 PM
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I think your right about a few things, like holding back someof the feelings, which I do quite a bit but it happens. I'm not to concerned, after this vacation I've started to feel more alive. and I hope to get rid of the SI soon, and i finally get to see a T on Thursday, and I think I it will help a bit to talk to someone away from the situation.
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Old Oct 07, 2010, 07:04 PM
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Found a new T and the office is so much closer (15 minutes compeared to 45 minutes) and they should get me into a Pdoc, I hope. but I did cut while i was on vacation and it felt good to get rid of what was under the skin. I think I cut because there's something I have to get rid off, to help the skin to heal.
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Old Oct 08, 2010, 01:33 AM
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So glad to hear about the T Puzzclar. Please continue to keep us posted.
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