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Old Oct 25, 2010, 07:28 PM
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i tried, and i failed! Sorry! I wish i felt somethin but i jus feel numb!

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Old Oct 26, 2010, 12:55 AM
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I'm sorry Lara. Next time would it help if you told your friend "Friend, I can't deal with what you are talking about. Can you help me out here?"
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Old Oct 26, 2010, 11:15 AM
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you didnt fail - the very fact that you tried means you won - and as my T used to say - yuo can do better next time - dont beat yourself up about this - commend yuorself that you tried and recognise your trigger so you can try a differnet approach next time ok

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Old Oct 26, 2010, 03:15 PM
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P7 said it all. You didn't fail, infact read what's under this and maybe it will help you to see why you haven't completely failed yet.

Remember, you can do this!!! You can get better!! One step at a time.
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 03:08 PM
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thanks guys. I'm doing my best but it jus seems thats not good enough! If my friend found out she'd be really mad at me!
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Old Oct 29, 2010, 04:01 AM
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I'm doing my best but it jus seems thats not good enough!
Maybe you need a different plan then?

Is this a helpful response from your friend?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........

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Old Oct 29, 2010, 09:30 AM
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I guess not. I shouldn't care what she thinks really. She can be mad all she likes!! I just can't wait till the weekend and this wedding is over with so I can continue with my break down!!!
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Old Oct 29, 2010, 12:03 PM
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If she is your friend can you talk to her?
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Old Oct 29, 2010, 05:16 PM
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If she is your friend can you talk to her?

Not right now. Will have to wait till next week
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