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Sep 12, 2011, 12:47 PM
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I told my friend I have a crush on her, that was several weeks ago and she's only just told me how uncomfortable I made her feel and how I should have known better and I think she no longer wants to be my friend. I spent all of the last two days crying and hating myself and blaming myself and today I cut my arm. I've been depressed half my life, but I never self-harmed before and I'm scared.
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Sep 12, 2011, 01:28 PM
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You think that she doesn't want to be your friend but she didn't say this. Can you be her friend again?
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Sep 12, 2011, 01:53 PM
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She wants me to give her space because she feels awkward around me. I want to be her friend, but I suspect she will never want to forgive me. That's why I can't forgive myself. I hate myself.
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Sep 12, 2011, 02:20 PM
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No need to hate yourself. I think your friend will ultimately want to be aroudn you again. She is just uncomfortable now and needs a bit of room. You could not have known this when you told her you had a crush on her, so there's no need to self-blame. I am sorry you cut. I can understand you feel scared about it. I hope you can think of other things to do instead of cutting that will release your tension/depression/self-hate.
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Sep 13, 2011, 12:31 PM
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Quote:
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Sep 15, 2011, 09:59 PM
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Don't do it again.. please for everyone you love and that loves you. I'm 13 and I regret it and I don't want anyone to do that same. That cut turns into a scar..that will remind you always of the reason you cut,a reminder of the pain which will make you feel the urge to do it again (I know). She doesn't deserve you.Trust and believe that there is someone out there for everyone and she's not it
 Bai ^_^
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