HereIam-

I understand exactly what message boards (forums is another word used for the words message board) are -

Message boards (forums) are broad topics and subjects so that many areas can be discussed in one place.

I also know what threads are -

Threads are many posts within a message board area that address each aspcect of the message board title by narrowing down each message board (forum) title to a specific area or topic be discussed.

I have been using the internet also for years so as you can see I do know exacly what and how to use them.

I am not stopping you from venting about why you are cutting. In fact since you have a problem with not being able to vent on my "Here's To Doing It Together" thread and I choose not to address that area because I am not a professional here you go. A venting thread. Use it any way you want and add whatever rules you want since I am turning it over to you.

[hereiam]

myself...thank you for the thread. but i don't think ill be using it, and i won't be 'moderating' it or calling it my own. hopefully this can aid others in their venture to quit cutting. good luck to us all!

Now Im the one that doesn't understand and thats ok I don't need to understand all that matters is you understand what is what for you but I find this situation kind of like the saying be careful what you wish for, because if you get your wish it might not be what you really want- you say you want to be able to vent about your cutting and when the oportunity is there for you, you decline. I listened and understood and tried to help and thats all I can do.

Your welcome and This thread is here for you whether or not you use it and yes I hope it gives others comfort too.

[fgh]

Well I'm frustrated cuz I haven't cut in so long I would have to dig out my stuff to do it. One of us likes to wear short sleeved shirts so I moved when I did it and now I can't cut there either so I just quit. Let my angry self build up inside and let them deal with it then. more than one way to skin a cat. tc nona

[blackdragon]

I hate the fact that my cousin trys to control me. saying if i cut again that she will tell. UHH they know allready. But it frustrates me cause she use to cut. What does she think that im copying her. probly she does. What also frustrates me is the fact that i cant cut and i dont want to dissapoint anyone like my therapist. But i will cut on my legs cause they cant see there. UGH life stinks.

[hereiam]

"saying be careful what you wish for, because if you get your wish it might not be what you really want"

myself - i never asked for this thread, so i can't be careful what i wished for if i never asked for it. it's a good idea, but the fact that you started a thread that i never asked for in my name is not. you're missing my point from the last thread - i just didnt understand why we couldn't explain why we were at the number we were at. that's it. lets stop this now, okay? since these replys have nothing directly to do with the topic of self injury (only the threads themselves), then anything else you wish to say to me can be done through PM so we don't bother others. no more back and fourth on the threads. i appreciate it.

fgh - there are other ways to release your emotions besides cutting, you don't have to let it build up! journaling, breathing, talking to friends, family, a therapist. you don't have to feel the way you do - there are people who can help. and know that you always have us.

blackdragon - im sorry your cousin trys to control you. but if you have a therapist, why not talk to her more about the cutting instead of hiding it? she is there to help you, not hurt you. i hope you know you can always talk to us, no matter what the situation.