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Oct 14, 2012, 04:37 PM
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I am 15 and suffered with SI since I was 9, for the past two years my teachers had been informed and kept it quiet, though never really helped. I final stopped at the end of last year but relapsed 2 weeks ago, I had a blade in school, I have never not had one at school, but someone told my PE teacher. The school forgot to inform this teacher, she pulled me out of my lesson threatened the police on me, called my parent and reported me to the headmaster- never once asked why. I continued the rest of the lesson with my head of year who already new and has come to know me very well. The PE teacher said to my PE class how i am a troubled child and how she felt sorry for me. I am so angery, everyone now stares at me when i get changed in PE, I dont ever wont to go to what was my favourite lesson all because of this teacher who has no respect for me, and yet demands respect off me. I feel like crying when i realise i have PE. The only thing that stops me from running out is my one friend. I HATE THE TEACHER!!! she has no right to say i'm troubled, she doesn't know me or what i have lived through. Anyone know what I should do because I have a whole year left with her?
 
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Oct 14, 2012, 05:18 PM
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I think she did it out of obligation to report anything out of the ordinary if it involves hurting oneself. she did it out of care, and because it is part of her job. she wouldn't be a responsible member of staff if she didnt' say something.
it sounds like you could really benifit from therapy... and i hope you would be willing to work with someone. i know it seems like the world is against you, but ppl do want to help you
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Oct 14, 2012, 05:47 PM
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hi there. i'm sorry that happened as i personally think she was bang out of order telling the class you're a troubled child etc ... how is that supposed to help? high school is tough enough without that kind of stigma thanx to a teacher. i'm sorry i really don't have any advice to give beyond talk to your head of year. does the head of year/headmaster know the way this teacher handled it? and if you feel the need to talk about why you relapsed, no judgement here ok 
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Oct 15, 2012, 09:38 AM
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I am so sorry that happened to you! I understand why she informed the headmaster if she was not in the loop, but she had NO right to tell your classmates this. In fact, isn't that against some kind of law? (well at least in the states, I know we have something called HIPAA law which prevents Health info from being spread like that...I'm not a lawyer or anything, so maybe it doesn't apply here, IDK.) Regardless, the teacher should not have commented like that in front of your class.
Maybe you can talk to head of year, as carrie ann suggested? Can you switch to a different PE teacher/class? I wish you luck, please, please keep us posted, and def keep posting here. I agree, if you need to talk, no judgement!
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Oct 15, 2012, 10:46 AM
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sorry this happened to you... how are you feeling about it all today?
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Oct 15, 2012, 04:23 PM
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Oct 16, 2012, 12:20 AM
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tbh i wouldnt put up with that and im 15 do your parents know about this i would talk to them and make a plan becouse its not right for a teacher to do that pm me if u want
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