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#1
Oct 18, 2012, 11:28 AM
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I have not self harmed since sept 27th 2012 Iam aiming for a month
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 Angelornot, SoupDragon, tomboy2011
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#2
Oct 18, 2012, 11:56 AM
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It does not sound silly at all
 Sometimes we all set Big Goals, then get discouraged if we can't meet the goal right away, or slip once. Incremental steps are a big key to Long Term Goals 
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| AngelWolf3, darkmood
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#3
Oct 18, 2012, 10:43 PM
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No honey not silly. That's how I started. I liked the feeling of progress (at first, there are definitely times that are hard). I have fought those urges, starting with the same one month goal, I can say I have not SI in almost 5 yrs. Do I struggle, oh yessiree. But I've done it, at this point the scars have almost entirely cleared up and I remind myself of that. As time goes on tweak this goal to fit your needs. Stay strong and learn to love yourself.
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#4
Oct 19, 2012, 07:10 AM
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Definitely not silly at all!!! And you're almost there...!!!
 Good for you
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#5
Oct 19, 2012, 02:48 PM
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Yeah, not silly, good work!
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#6
Oct 22, 2012, 01:26 PM
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That's not silly! Good for you.
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Oct 22, 2012, 02:57 PM
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its not silly at all. the little milestones are the things that help us build confidence for longer term sucess
keep up the good work!
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Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about learning to dance in the rain. 
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Oct 22, 2012, 05:07 PM
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I think that is a good goal
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#9
Oct 25, 2012, 09:19 AM
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I slipped and cut I give up
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#10
Oct 25, 2012, 10:06 AM
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I'm sorry you ended up slipping, but your goal wasn't silly at all!
I know it can be disappointing when you slip after doing better, but can you see this as a sign that something is going on in your life that has to be addressed instead of a failure? Slip-ups are learning experiences! Don't give up! |
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Oct 26, 2012, 01:21 PM
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You went for 4 weeks which is very good. Try going for another 4 weeks.
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