[eunoia535]

Seriously. Why is it so hard to practice self love?! Why must I be driven to self destruction?!! How does one deal with emotional pain without inflicting physical pain?! I don't get how to cope. I know pain well. It is my familiar. I don't know how to change. I want too. Somehow . learn to practice self love.

[kaliope]

I came up with one indisputable fact. one good thing about me that I could not deny no matter how bad I felt about myself. for me it was that I was a good writer. I have always gotten A's on my papers for as long as I can remember and write professional evaluations today that receive praise. there is no denying that I am a good writer. so when I started running off that list of bad things in my head, I could say, yeah, but I am a good writer to compliment myself and feel good instead of bad. soon I found more good things about me and added them to the list. it took awhile but eventually I started believing that I was a good person with these good qualities. this is how I learned to love myself.