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Old Dec 29, 2007, 07:26 PM
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if i hurt myself,will it stop others hurting? will something happen to make the bad things inother peoples lives go away? ill do that if it works, im scarred enough as it is, id rather it were me than them. tell me it works. then it will b ok
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blah. im pathetic. i want to try it. to see if it works. i think i will. cyah later with the results.
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Old Dec 29, 2007, 07:46 PM
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oh and another question. um. what do i do, if a goood friend of mine, asks if they can cut themself. becasue they are mayjorly stressed. like, to the point where theyre considering suicide. and their other coping methods are shot to pleces. what do u do. do u not let them with the fear that they might die? or do u letthem butmonitor what they do when they do it and try to reduce it as much as possible?
wtf.
and i wish i never did cut, if i didnt they wouldnt be considering it i bet you. i bet you its my fault
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Old Dec 29, 2007, 09:30 PM
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you might not like my answer here... but if my friend was at that place... i would tell them that they need to call someone more qualified to help them then i am...and if they couldn't i would do it for them... it sounds like they need more help then you are able to give right now... you need to take care of yourself... and be safe....so you can be there to help them...i don't know if this is making any sense...your a good friend...lyn
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Old Dec 29, 2007, 09:36 PM
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selfy your not stupid... and it's not your fault... please call someone to help you get through this...lyn
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Old Dec 30, 2007, 12:25 AM
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((((((((((Selfy))))))))))

I hope you didnt do anything.

Hurting yourself will not take away anyones pain. It will also just make your own worse.

And as for your friend, I agree with the advice that bchlyn gave.

Take care of yourself. can i stop others pain by my own?
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Old Dec 30, 2007, 01:57 AM
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you can be a better model by having good coping habits. we get better when we are around healthier people than ourselves.
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Old Dec 30, 2007, 03:58 AM
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I have to agree with bchlyn. When someone is in danger, the best thing to do is get them some qualified help, or tell someone who is in a position to help them. But don't feel like it is your fault. Your friend is responsible for his or her own actions, and you didn't cause the feelings that they are experiencing.

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Old Dec 30, 2007, 11:46 AM
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i hope your ok this morning...and your friend is ok...lyn
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