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Old Aug 04, 2004, 12:46 PM
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I am feeling a lot like hurting myself today. M is mad at me for avoiding some tasks and I just feel like a total waste of space. Nothing new there I suppose. I know that I am capable of expressing myself, but something stops me. Bears aren't supposed to hibernate in the summer, but that is apparently all I am "good enough" for :(

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Old Aug 04, 2004, 01:30 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Fuzzy}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

You are my very most favoritest bear in the whole wide world (and that is saying something, because I have several teddy bears, some of which have a lot of significance for me). Hibernating in the summer doesn't sound very fun. So many of us struggle with feeling like we are not worth anything. I guess we just need to stop making assumptions about our own worth and believe the rest of our friends here, any of which would tell you, Fuzzy, that your worth is ever so much more than you can imagine, and you could never be a waste of space. Whatever space you occupy is very privileged indeed to be your space.

Luv 'ya bunches, :(
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Old Aug 04, 2004, 06:28 PM
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Rap is right, fuzzy! You are the GREATEST!!!!!! And you don't deserve to be hurt.

(((((((((((((((fuzzy)))))))))))))))))

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Old Aug 04, 2004, 07:14 PM
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Sorry you are having trouble fuzzy. You have great worth and great compassion. Please be kind to the bear.

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Old Aug 04, 2004, 08:19 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))))))))))))))))))))...:(

<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT</font color=blue> :(
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Old Aug 04, 2004, 10:30 PM
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Thanks everyone, your replies mean a lot to me! (((((((((((((((Wendy, Angela, Wisewoman, Jill and Susan))))))))))))))

Love,
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Old Aug 05, 2004, 02:47 AM
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Sweet Bear,

I'd pay my weight in gold for that "waste of space" that you occupy. And always remember your good is better, and your better is best. Your one of a kind dear Bear, and i wouldn't have you any other way :(

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Old Aug 05, 2004, 03:35 AM
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Fuzzy, you are so loved & needed here - I wish you could feel that.

I put off doing my bank statements for 2 months......that was not good. We're all human, even a bear as beautiful as yourself.

xoxoxoxox

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Old Aug 05, 2004, 06:26 AM
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Just thought you could probably use a hug too.

I haven't done my bank statements this whole year! Really not good!

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Old Aug 05, 2004, 09:01 AM
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((((((Fuzzy)))))) Since my laundry sorta needs doing, I shan't offer advice! Just the hugs!!

But isn't it unAmerican to run electrical applicances during the summer months??? Don't we need to conserve electricty?? Hmmm???? That's my story and I'm sticking to it. You can use it if you'd like!! :-)

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Old Aug 05, 2004, 01:46 PM
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Thanks Greg, I'll try to remember that, instead of the "bad things" :(

Love you,
Bear
xoxox

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Old Aug 05, 2004, 01:47 PM
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Thanks Mary Alice, you're very sweet! ((((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))))))

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Old Aug 05, 2004, 01:50 PM
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Thanks (((((((( Em)))))))) yeah we British Bears should conserve energy too ... maybe stopping eating chocolate at 4.30 am would be a start :(


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Old Aug 06, 2004, 01:32 AM
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Only to select people, Fuzzy.......mostly on here, and esp. to someone who always cares like you do.

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Old Aug 06, 2004, 03:33 PM
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I thought maybe you could use a hug today ((((((((((((((((Mary Alice))))))))))))))))

Take care,
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Old Aug 07, 2004, 04:04 AM
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Yes, Fuzzy, I did.......thank you. Same back at you........

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Old Aug 07, 2004, 12:22 PM
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(((((((Fuzzy))))))))); sorry to hear you are down. You are such an awesome bear. the gentle warm and cuddly kind. You are always here for me and I am here for you too!!!!!!
BIG HUGS FOR YOU---------FUZZY. Hope you feel better soon.

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Old Aug 08, 2004, 09:36 AM
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Thanks, you're a sweetie! ((((((((((((((((((itsjustme))))))))))))))))))


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Old Aug 08, 2004, 10:00 AM
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I know chocolate is yummy....but all that sugar really messes up your serotonin, ya know? Spikes it WAY up high, then....no d'oh...comes shooting Kaboomy shabangy zoomy WAY down low.

So quit that you silly British Bear!!! Try nice thick-cut oatmeal instead! With goodly amounts of yummy fruit, and nuts and cinnamon, and whatever else makes your bear tummy happy. Any whole grain goodness will do. There - that's my special cure for the Bear.

Of course, you didn't ask, but that's the best kind of advice to give! The kind no one wants!!!! :-)

Filling bear tummies is my sub-specialty. em

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Old Aug 08, 2004, 09:33 PM
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Thanks em! I'll take your advice any time ... that sounds yummy!!!

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