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Default Jan 27, 2008 at 01:35 AM
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(((((alyssa)))))
you sound like, even with the temptations, you are doing really well. Keep trying, and just take it one day at a time. Good luck.

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Default Jan 27, 2008 at 05:24 AM
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((((((((((( alyssa )))))))))))

Keep giving it your best, you're doing great! a whole month without....

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Default Jan 27, 2008 at 10:11 AM
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thanx guys, its the start of a new day, iwill do this a whole month without....
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Default Jan 27, 2008 at 02:40 PM
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((((((alyssa))))))))))) you can do it! a whole month without....

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Default Jan 28, 2008 at 11:22 PM
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i failed and cut, i guess now i have to pick my self up and try again

i feel so sad it didnt do any good for me at all

so i wont do it again!!!
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Default Jan 29, 2008 at 12:04 AM
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Sorry you slipped up, but yeah ... do try again!

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Default Jan 29, 2008 at 12:22 AM
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when i blow it... my t has me look at my successes not the failures... he wants me to know that there is always a fresh start... i am sorry you were hurting so much that you cut... do you know what triggered you? remember tomorrow is a new day... a fresh start...lyn

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Default Jan 29, 2008 at 12:42 AM
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i know what triggered but i dont want to say

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Default Jan 29, 2008 at 01:47 AM
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it isn't important if you say it here... i was just thinking if you could identify what happened before (the trigger) and after (the payoff, so to speak)it would help you to understand what happened... for me the trigger seems to be anxiety and the payoff is the numb that takes that away...you didn't fail... just took a step backwards... i think for myself anyway... it isn't as important the number of days as it is to clean out the underneath stuff... does that make any sense?... i went 12 years without... and now it's back again much more intense then it has ever been... i went a long time... but didn't ever clean out the underneath stuff...lyn

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Default Jan 29, 2008 at 02:32 AM
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yea my underneath stuff is still there and until it is gone i suppose trying to fight this battle before that one will prove difficult
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Default Jan 29, 2008 at 08:31 AM
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I am sorry things got too much for you. But you can start again and it sounds like you have learned something about yourself and your cutting. I hope it helps in the future.

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Default Jan 29, 2008 at 09:44 AM
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i am not saying that your goal isn't a good thing... it is... and your doing great... even though you cut... your still that much closer to your goal... you know a little more and that will help you... a new start... a fresh start... keep on going...lyn

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Default Jan 31, 2008 at 04:36 PM
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im strugeling with the eating side of things, but im still drinking water and occasionaly milk so its not fasting
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Default Jan 31, 2008 at 07:16 PM
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a whole month without.... >>>.. A ngel >>> * Cling * .
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Default Feb 01, 2008 at 12:56 AM
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a whole month without.... A ngel ,,,,, You have a Thoughtful Day everyday and you shall in time change the pattern >>> Remember What we want to see and what ATM is ,,,, Takes a little bit of time ,, and in time a whole month without.... " I am doing this ". a whole month without....<<<< You ,, Soon,, A ngel .... a whole month without....
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Default Feb 02, 2008 at 12:23 AM
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Please try and take care of yourself. I know you are trying very hard. I am thinking of you.

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Default Feb 02, 2008 at 02:06 PM
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thanx both of you but i purged a little today a whole month without.... but i must pick mhy self up and move on
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I am sorry you felt you had to purge but I am happy to see that you realize just to go forward from here. I know how hard it can be and realize how hard you are trying. Keep doing your best.

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