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Jan 27, 2008, 09:05 PM
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the urges are triggering some pretty unproductive thoughts... so is there really that much of a difference if i think it... or do it.
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lyn one could do worse then be a swinger of birches. ~robert frost~
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Jan 27, 2008, 09:08 PM
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I often struggle with that one myself but there really is a big difference. sometimes actually hurting yourself starts the viscous cycle. And if you can try and be kind to yourself as you really do deserve it. Sometimes it can be so hard to see. I hope you are able to resist.
BB
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Jan 27, 2008, 09:21 PM
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((((((((((bchlyn)))))))))))
I'm going to agree with BB here. I'm sorry about the thoughts... they're the hardest to get through sometimes.
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Jan 27, 2008, 09:26 PM
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There IS a difference because afterwards, you're only going to beat yourself up more knowing that you did SI.
Try and find something to do that will distract yourself from these triggering thoughts ... watch a movie, or call someone .. anything to get your mind off SI. Please try and stay safe...  
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Jan 27, 2008, 11:59 PM
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How are you doing???
Hugs, Jacq
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Jan 28, 2008, 02:33 AM
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That can get me down sometimes too. But i think there is a difference - it is our choices (when we are capable of making them) that distinguish who and what we are.
How are you doing out there? (((((((((Lyn))))))))) Kiya
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Jan 28, 2008, 02:45 AM
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i am hanging in there... kind of anyway... i haven't cut... but the urges are there...thank you for hanging in there with me...lyn
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Jan 28, 2008, 08:36 AM
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I'm glad you have been able resist. That is great. Hang in there and know we are here.
BB
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Jan 28, 2008, 10:30 AM
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You can get through this .. we're all here for you.
((((((((lyn))))))))
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Jan 28, 2008, 11:06 AM
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ty
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lyn one could do worse then be a swinger of birches. ~robert frost~
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Jan 29, 2008, 02:23 AM
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((((((((((((lyn))))))))))))))
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Jan 29, 2008, 08:57 AM
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((((((((((((( lyn )))))))))))))
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Jan 29, 2008, 09:48 AM
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i am trying to replace the lies in my head... the lies that my abusers embedded in my thoughts... but right now all i want is to cut... i wish i could replace the urges... cuz right now... if it wasn't that i need to work today... they would win...lyn
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Jan 29, 2008, 11:01 AM
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well at least we know work does have some purpose =)
keep replacing those lies! we're right with you. kiya
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Jan 29, 2008, 03:37 PM
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((((((((((bchlyn))))))))))
I hope today is better for you.
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Jan 30, 2008, 12:50 AM
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i am really struggling with the not such good ideas/thoughts/urges ... i know where... i know how... wish this xananx would kick in...lyn
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lyn one could do worse then be a swinger of birches. ~robert frost~
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Jan 30, 2008, 12:57 AM
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lyn, I am sorry you are struggling so much. Maybe you can distract yourself right now? I hope you are able to resist. Please try and stay safe.
BB
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Jan 30, 2008, 01:16 AM
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ty... i am trying... it's just the same old lies...getting mixed up with all the garbage i am dealing with...sorry...lyn
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lyn one could do worse then be a swinger of birches. ~robert frost~
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Jan 30, 2008, 02:31 AM
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um... life rope?
0000 0 0 -----------o 0 0 0 0000
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Jan 31, 2008, 12:00 AM
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ty...be safe...lyn
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lyn one could do worse then be a swinger of birches. ~robert frost~
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#21
Jan 31, 2008, 02:04 AM
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well, my "life rope" looks like a wilted flower when posted. it *was* a life rope earlier. I can't even edit it now.
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#22
Jan 31, 2008, 08:30 AM
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that's ok... i appreciated the hand up...lyn
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lyn one could do worse then be a swinger of birches. ~robert frost~
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#23
Jan 31, 2008, 11:14 AM
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((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))
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