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Mar 25, 2008, 08:55 PM
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I went a whole flipping 2 days ha
i am such a failure geez i hate this |
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#2
Mar 25, 2008, 09:02 PM
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(( Court ))
You're not a failure. |
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Mar 25, 2008, 09:05 PM
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((((((((((((Court_Knee)))))))))))) you're NOT a failure, you DON'T suck at life...so long as you don't give up and keep trying you can NEVER be called a failure by anybody...anybody calls you that tell me i'll kick their butt for ya...you included...LOL...quite being so hard on yourself and hang in there...we all luv ya and i think ya rock!!!  
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Mar 25, 2008, 09:17 PM
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(((((((((((( Court ))))))))))))
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#5
Mar 25, 2008, 09:18 PM
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Thanks guys but I am a failure.
I just hate this, I dont want to deal with any of this anymore. I just want to be done with it all |
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#6
Mar 25, 2008, 09:24 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Kalamity_Jane said: ((((((((((((Court_Knee)))))))))))) you're NOT a failure, you DON'T suck at life...so long as you don't give up and keep trying you can NEVER be called a failure by anybody...anybody calls you that tell me i'll kick their butt for ya...you included...LOL...quite being so hard on yourself and hang in there...we all luv ya and i think ya rock!!! </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> hmmmmmm.......re-read this post....you just called yourself a failure again...now i gotta kick ur butt...LOL...i know you're having a hard time right now but PLEASE believe it will pass!!! and you really gotta beleive you are worth SO much!!!
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#7
Mar 25, 2008, 09:27 PM
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no i am not worth anything i am a peice of crap and no body cares about me
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#8
Mar 25, 2008, 09:29 PM
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whoa what's brought this on.?....you're not crap and from what i see a lotta people here care about you! |
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#9
Mar 25, 2008, 09:30 PM
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Two days is great...every second you resist the urge is an accomplishment! You are not a failure. I'm sorry you're struggling...hugs.
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#10
Mar 25, 2008, 09:30 PM
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because everything is bad
i thought it was better but then everything just got worse and i cant stand it i cant deal with this and he just walks out tonight and ugh euidskfgjvds |
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#11
Mar 25, 2008, 09:31 PM
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yeah well 2 days isnt the case now its like 10 minutes.
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#12
Mar 25, 2008, 09:33 PM
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ok i'm no good at giving advice....all i can say is you ARE worth caring about and i'm sorry things suck right now...but please hang in there coz bad times don't last forever..it just feels like it at the time.
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#13
Mar 25, 2008, 09:39 PM
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no this will last forever but thanks youre really sweet to try and help im just hopeless
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#14
Mar 25, 2008, 09:42 PM
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i just wish i knew the right words to say...maybe somebody else who knows you better will know the right words. guess all i can say is i genuinely do hope things get better for you soon coz you deserve to be happy in my opinion...you DO matter....you just don't know it yet!!!
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#15
Mar 25, 2008, 09:42 PM
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You need to try and have a better outlook- you're not worthless or hopeless. You're a good person and you deserve good.
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#16
Mar 25, 2008, 09:45 PM
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ok sorry for making this stupid post because i just did it again. i think that i should just get rid of the ticker and stop bothering to count how long i go because its stupid.
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#17
Mar 25, 2008, 09:48 PM
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it's not stupid....and you're not a bother...please don't give up trying...we do care!!! |
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#18
Mar 25, 2008, 09:52 PM
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It's not stupid Court.
One second at a time. |
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#19
Mar 25, 2008, 10:26 PM
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you know court... 2 days in a rough cycle is amazing... that can be a long time... i know first hand... remember... don't count the backward steps only the forward ones... and you will see that your farther ahead then you thought...lyn
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lyn one could do worse then be a swinger of birches. ~robert frost~
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Mar 25, 2008, 10:31 PM
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court... if the ticker is triggering you then maybe you need to find another way for awhile... i know that when i first started doing the chart for my t it would send me deep into a cycle because i was looking at it as a failure when i had to start over... then he pointed out all the stars that marked the days i didn't... and it seemed to help when i changed the way i looked at it... i tend to have an 8 week cycle and when he points out that i am getting close to that sometimes it makes it worse... so now he points it out after i either pass it or if i cut...lyn
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lyn one could do worse then be a swinger of birches. ~robert frost~
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#21
Mar 26, 2008, 08:21 AM
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((((((((((((Court)))))))))))))))) if the ticker isn't working for you, then you don't have to use it. You are doing a good job, you really are. It's so hard to stop something we've become accustomed to, especially when stress and other things pop up.
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#22
Mar 26, 2008, 09:42 AM
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((((((((((Court))))))))))
You're not hopeless. SI is a rough rough cycle.... I like what lyn said about only counting the forward steps. If you keep thinking about what you DIDN'T accomplish, thats probably only going to trigger you into cutting more.
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