[RomeoNBambie]

Since my fist post all me and my partner have done is argue because the slightest thing i do or say makes him angry, one night we had an arguement and i got a friend of our's to call me because i didn't know what to do, he walked out of the house slamming the door behind him.
When he came back i asked him where he had been , he said "OUT".
Then he locked himself in the bathroom, i was telling my friend on the phone that I knew he was in the bathroom and he was going to cut, I have been told on here not to stop hoim because it could make him worse, but i could not sit there and do nothing when i knew what he was doing.
I went to the bathroom door and was begging him to open it but he told me to go away and speak to my "new boyfriend", i went back in and told our friend on the phone what he had said and i heard him come out of the bathroom, he ran in and I thought he was going to punch me in the face but he wiped his arm all over me and started screaming "have you seen what you've made me do", I looked down and I was covered in blood.
I looked at his arm and he had loads of slashes on his fore arm, I have counted the marks since.
There was 83 of them, and there was blood all over the floor, the person on the phone was a neuteral friend so he spoke to him, at this time I was having a panic attack on the couch crying my eyes out thinking that he was going to die and did not know what to do and that it was all my fault.
He said the only reason I was crying is not because I care about him but because I knew he had done it because of me and that I was feeling guilty, we have argued since and he has started saying that it is me that has the temper and causes all the arguements.Today he told me to pack all my stuff because he was kicking me out and it was over, then said he was going to kill himself, I started crying my eyes out and packed, he then told me I didn't care because I was doing what he told me to.
This morning we were laying in bed and I said to him, you can smile babe, he said "what is there to smile about", so i said "ok", then he said to me that he didnt want anyone or anything near him so I took me and the dog into the living room, he then started saying I didnt say u have to leave the room, just lay next to me and not touch me, WHAT DO I DO!! ????? <font color="#000088"> </font>

[Kiya]

Gosh... personally, I would get out - you're being treated kind of badly and that is really scary and manipluative. Second I would call a social worker or someone and tell them what is going on so that he can get the help he needs.

Best to you!!!!

[x_BabyG_x]

Bloody hell.

This realy is maniuplation, how long have you been with him for?

Listen, whatever happens you can't blame yourself for his own behaviour. I know it may seem a bit extreme, but if you think that leaving him would be the best possible thing to do, then do it. It seems like he is bullying you, but all you seem to do is tread carefully around him. You need to stick up for yourself, what he is saying to you sounds like a threat, and you need to stand up tall and make him see what he is doing to you.

I hope your ok after all this hun

much love babyg xXx

p.s - Is he seeing anybody for this??

[RomeoNBambie]

I have been with him since october babyG, it is not all him, i can be snappy at times, and he has been under stress, but it hurt the most when he told me that the only reason i worry is because i feel guilty, because it is partly true when he tell's me that i cause it sometimes, he told me himself not to walk on egg shells around him but when i stand up for myself im scared incase i say wrong thing, is that bad? He used to see someone but moved from that area, he has been to his G.P about finding someone else x x

[natkcorwin]

If I were you I would go to see someone to talk to and disscuss your problem with and they can have an answer you seek. Also talk to God about your problems and he can help.