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Apr 22, 2009, 08:30 PM
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all thats going on in my head is to end it. i cant take it. i wish i could tell dad how sorry i am that he lost his job cos he had to look after me :'( now its ruined his life and people are coming an taken our stuff away. cant take it no more
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Apr 22, 2009, 08:47 PM
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 teary I'm sure your dad doesn't blame you and you shouldn't either. |
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Apr 22, 2009, 11:24 PM
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im the reason everything we own is being taken away. and shortly will have no roof over our heads :'(
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Apr 23, 2009, 04:50 AM
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(((Teary Me))) stuff happens - your dad wont blame you - he obviously loves you
 dont be so hard on yourself you cant help being ill  Is there a social worker you can get in touch with or a citizens advice bureau that might be able to help you ?
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Apr 23, 2009, 05:53 AM
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((((((((((Teary_me))))))))))))))
sounds like you are in a tuff place rite now adn beads heart goes out to you.......just got out of a homeless situation recently ourself.......... must say tho how blessed you are to have a dad that cares sooooo much...... keep putting one foot in front of the other and do not let yourself give up here anytime you need to talk, bead
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Apr 23, 2009, 07:36 AM
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Teary, children think that the world revolves around them. This is natural and part of thinking development. This type of thinking makes them think that everything that happens has something to do with them (their parents divorced because of them for example). As children grow and develop this thinking matures and they stop thinking this way. All of us here, however, had stunted emotional development because of the environment that we grew up in so, therefore, many of us brought this type of thinking into adulthood. I stopped thinking this way in my late 30's. It is really liberating to not think this way. Very little that happens around me has anything to do with me and the same is for you. All sorts of things affect outcomes. The biggest thing that affects people are their own actions so your dad is responsible for his outcomes not you!
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Apr 23, 2009, 03:23 PM
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 (((((((((((((( teary me ))))))))))))))))
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Apr 24, 2009, 04:18 AM
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(((Tearyme)))
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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Apr 24, 2009, 08:22 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((Teary))))))))))))))))))))))
thanks for helping beads this am.....................you are very kind. hoping for a good day today for you, beads
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Apr 24, 2009, 09:23 AM
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Teary, as a parent I can say that I would give up anything and everything I have for my child/children if it were necessary. They are the most precious things in the world to me, and without them everything else would have much, much less meaning. I'd much rather have them and be homeless than have a mansion without them. I'll bet your dad feels the same way. Thinking of you and sending many good thoughts and hugs your way Don't give up. Things are never as bad as they seem. Lizzy B
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Apr 24, 2009, 09:29 AM
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(((((teary me)))))
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Apr 25, 2009, 11:31 AM
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Apr 25, 2009, 03:25 PM
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((((((((((((((((tearyme))))))))))))))))))
Hang in there. You are loved and you love back. That is the most important thing in the world.
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Apr 25, 2009, 06:20 PM
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How are you doing?
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts its how many times you get back up! (Thanks to fenrir for my Picture )When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown, Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly. by Patrick Overton, author and poet |
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