[lokipooh]

Ok once my friend called me an alcoholic nympho at the time it was true every time I drank I wanted sex. I had a friend who lived by a bar I went to, so I'd go to his place, we were both drunk and wanted sex so it worked. But I recently stopped drinking because I changed meds now I don't want sex as much I guess because I know I'm not going to get any I don't think about it. My friend stopped calling me recently right after I stopped drinking. So I pretty much don't have sex anymore is there such a thing where you can just switch it on and off because I kind of feel like I did. Idk it's very confusing.

[madisgram]

hi loki, when we drink it lowers our judgement and inhibitions. i think that is why you wanted sex and acted out. you're normal and once the alcohol leaves our body it takes it time to balance our emotions. so don't worry bout not wanting sex. you'll be ok and things will work out.

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[Need Some]

Originally Posted by lokipooh

ok once my friend called me an alcoholic nympho at the time it was true every time i drank i wanted sex. I had a friend who lived by a bar i went to, so i'd go to his place, we were both drunk and wanted sex so it worked. But i recently stopped drinking because i changed meds now i don't want sex as much i guess because i know i'm not going to get any i don't think about it. My friend stopped calling me recently right after i stopped drinking. So i pretty much don't have sex anymore is there such a thing where you can just switch it on and off because i kind of feel like i did. Idk it's very confusing.

i had the same problem, and for me it was that the alchohol removed my principles, which removed all conviction for me. Plus when i got drunk people looked better, and for some reason i needed to feel loved because i was deppressed. Anyway i know i perform better without it and it feels better as well, it did take some time though for me to get the alcohol out my system and get use to having sex sober, but it is better

[Impulsive1]

I have to tell ya that I like drinking and sometimes it enhances what is going on whether it's having sex or just being nude with others. I ease up before i get totally blotted out, but I love the feeling of that high buzz

[blueeyez_38]

I too, VERY MUCH enjoy sex when drunk.........to the point that I really cant even think of having it when sober. Why waste a good drunk without a good lay???? This is a question I have pondered for years. My moral code goes out the window when the liquor starts flowing.....ahhh, sweet bliss.