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Old Apr 25, 2014, 07:39 PM
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I just want to know what I am supposed to do. I have a pron addiction problem and I'm tired of living in a cage of porn. I want my life back and I want to make my marriage happy again!!!!!

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Old Apr 26, 2014, 09:30 PM
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I just want to know what I am supposed to do. I have a pron addiction problem and I'm tired of living in a cage of porn. I want my life back and I want to make my marriage happy again!!!!!
quit cold turkey and see if you can make it
1 day at a time
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Old Apr 28, 2014, 08:39 PM
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i haven't looked at online porn in 86 days now. and you know I don't even miss it. I think I don't miss it because honestly it wasn't really that satisfying. I was always looking for a woman that looks like my wife and of course I couldn't ever find it. I have started feeling clearer in the mind because im focusing on whats really important and that's my wife and kids. its funny because now I thrive on the hugs and kisses my wife gives me. sounds mushy I know but its such a good feeling I haven't felt in so long. now when my wife touches my hand or my back or kisses me back, just a simple peck on the lips its intoxicating. I know I have a long long way to go until I am free of my addiction but all I can do is focus on the day im living in and live for the day
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Old Apr 28, 2014, 10:21 PM
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once an addict always an addict you just cant go back or youll be hooked
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Old Apr 29, 2014, 08:36 PM
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I'm glad to hear the news. Just take it one day at a time. Keep porn out of your house, see about blocking any porn on TV and computers, etc.

Keep reminding yourself that those people are not real. They have been made up to look a lot better than they are, they are just actors/actresses, and so on.

And, yes, enjoy your wife!
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Old Apr 30, 2014, 11:10 AM
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i haven't looked at online porn in 86 days now. and you know I don't even miss it. I think I don't miss it because honestly it wasn't really that satisfying. I was always looking for a woman that looks like my wife and of course I couldn't ever find it. I have started feeling clearer in the mind because im focusing on whats really important and that's my wife and kids. its funny because now I thrive on the hugs and kisses my wife gives me. sounds mushy I know but its such a good feeling I haven't felt in so long. now when my wife touches my hand or my back or kisses me back, just a simple peck on the lips its intoxicating. I know I have a long long way to go until I am free of my addiction but all I can do is focus on the day im living in and live for the day
you were never addicted to porn, if you were an alcoholic or heroin addict do you really think you could go 86 days without and not miss it, you are having issues in your sex life with your wife..there my friend is where the answer you will find, solve that and all your issues will dissapear!
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