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I have a high sex drive. When I was single I'd have sex with like sometimes 3 different people in a week. I'd have random hook ups with people I barely knew and then have a constant friend with benefits. I like having sex with strangers actually better than friends because I tend to let everything loose because of the less connection emotionally. And the lack of judgement. Anyhow I need to have sex like everyday at least usually more than that. I masturbate too but sometimes get really upset afterwards. Frustrated I guess you could say. Well I have been in relationships before and never cheated as long as we had sex everyday at least and weren't boring in bed. If they didn't id usually find someone new and we'd break up. My relationships have been short for this reason. I had gotten into my current relationship and this has lasted over a year. She had a high sex drive and we got on well. I never wanted to cheat. Until we got pregnant. Then she got subconscious and stopped having sex as the pregnancy progressed. I went without sex for about a month. We broke up shortly and during this I slept with a man I met that day and my coworker. I got back with my then gf. But I continued to have sex with my coworker. But I broke it off with her soon after I got back with my then Girlfriend. I tried to not cheat on her and we ended up getting married quickly for her parent's sake and I managed to not for a few weeks but I was running on complete empty she doesn't want to to have sex ever it's been since we had sex. I respect that and therefore look elsewhere for sexual satisfaction. I know that's not allowed in our marriage for me to have someone else. I started an affair with a guy I worked with. It's hardly at all any emotional connections besides that we work together. I am really comfortable with him physically. He's good with sex and we've even talked about having a thresome with his SO. And I'm totally down for that. I can't have him every night though so I've basically had to cheat with 2 different people to satisfy my needs. But with her I just don't like it because she's single. I kind of feel like although we don't even know each other she's too affectionate. I don't feel emotionally attracted to either of them. It's simply the fact that I can't have sex everyday or near that with my wife why I'm having sex with them. Anyhow am I a sex addict? And I really just feel like I like sex a lot and can't go without it long.
I had a 7 month relationship before this relationship and didn't mind being monogamous. Advice?
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Nov 13, 2014, 10:17 AM
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