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I am nearing 50 and I seem to have hit a new sexual awakening. I have the need for sex many times a day. My wife is concerned about my increased need for sex. I have always had a healthy sexual appetite but this is unreal. I also have fantasies that I never would have imagined in my younger years. I have an overwhelming desire to share my wife with other men. I fought it for a while but eventually told her about it. She has incorporated it into our sexual play but has said she couldn’t do it for real. I think there something wrong with me. I also have the need to get pegged.
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Hi Craggyva,
My English is not very good so please excuse my writing. I wish I knew what to say about the situation you describe but sadly I lack wisdom. I don't know, but I would imagine that others who are nearing 50 . . . other men from all over the world have experienced something similar to what you describe. The human brain is so mysterious and sometimes seem to have a mind of its own. Sometimes when someone is troubled by what their brain is doing, it can help to talk to a professional therapist. Don't know if that would be appropriate or help in your situation but perhaps it is something at least to consider. So sorry that I lack insight. Hopefully others here on the Forums will make up for my lack of wisdom in this matter by offering their own ideas. I wish you only good things! -- Yaowen |
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I thought about the mortality piece, I have lost a lot of older family members recently. My concern is that my sexual needs are now dominating my thoughts. I love my wife and kids dearly and do not want to jeopardize our relationships. I am a good provider and I have always put my family’s needs first. Right now though all I want is my needs and desires to be taken care of. I talk to my wife about my fantasies and desires and she humors me to degree because she loves me and wants to understand. I try not to hide things from her, but I have been getting on sex sites and meeting people online for online fun only. I work at night a lot for home and will end up masterbating on cam with women, couples and sometimes men. I feel guilty because I should be loyal to my wife and not having sexual interactions with other people. I have been married for almost 20 years and I love and desire my wife as much as I did when we met. Before we met, I traveled for work and met women and had short intense sexual relationships. I also was never in one place for long period of time. Now I have been in the same job for a decade and the same routines every day. I think part of this is just pure boredom. My concerns is I am heading down a path that I might not be able to control. My online sexual behavior has been anonymous play with people I will never meet. Lately I have been interacting with people in my city that I live and conversations are moving more towards actually meeting. This is a struggle for me and my need to be good is losing to my need to be bad. I am always good., I always do what is expected of me, at home and at work. It is hard to not give in at this point.
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I struggle with the same. I started similar to you and it has snowballed into an avalanche. I want sex all the time and do things I never thought I would..... and enjoy it. Tread carefully, you're in dangerous water.
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