[90mphINneutral]

Hello, I am sexually frustrated. I am frustrated because I want to end my sexual "addiction." I've been sexually active for many years now but lately I've been having a hard time not having sex. Having sex many times a day is ideal but most men I sleep with can't do that because the men I sleep with are usually older like a lot older than me, say 40's, 50's. I went to a sex addicts class but got kicked out cuz I slept with one of the members. I feel bad, but then again I don't. It fullfills me temporarily. Then I move on to the next.

I posted something like this earlier, say a few months ago but it got deleted. I am sexually addicted to pain and can't achieve orgasm with some kind of pain involved, so I want to just have a normal sex life, like not all the time but also not involving where I need to be beat all the time either. I need to get married... find a stable guy who can fix me *sighs* This tires me out just thinking about it and then typing it. I guess I would just appreciate tips on how to have a normal sex life, without extremes.

Thank you,
90

[bebop]

honey a man can't "fix" you. therapy might help though. not trying to be mean here but neither sex can fix another human being. perhaps you are lacking something somewhere in your life that has made you feel these things. I would strongly suggest discussing this with your therapist.

[Rhapsody]

- 100% w/ Bebop and I am happier for having learned this lesson.