[lovefew-fearnone]

ok so i am not sure what is going to happen really. i came out to her a few days ago and she hasn't mentioned it and i don't know if she is going to break up with me or if she is going to drop it or what.... i am not sure why im posting this im just not sure and am wondering if anyone has any advice or pointers on talking to her about it and what not

[Travelinglady]

Hmmm. How did she respond when you brought it up to her? ....What did you want her to do or say?.....Are you hoping that she's attracted to you and hope that your relationship will move beyond friendship? I'd be tempted to just let her bring it up, if she chooses to. Is she acting any different after you told her?

[Primer]

You could also try telling her what you're feeling now. You could tell her that it's been a few days now and that you're wondering what she thinks of what you told her. If she really loves you, though, she won't break up with you. It's okay for you bring up the topic, too, and not wait for her to. Being bi is kind of a large part of who you are, I think, and so I think it would not be very good if that was to always remain an awkward topic to bring up with her.

[Travelinglady]

Yeah, in retrospect, Primer is probably right. Especially since you're concerned about it...If she doesn't bring it up, it might be good to bring it up and say something like, "You know I shared with you about my being bi, and I've just been wondering...Are you okay with that?".....Of course, you know her best, so you'd know the best way to approach her.....