[2complex4ownGood]

Hey to all

As the title says is sex your main focus, all day and every day. I'm led to believe that being a man I am supposed to think about sex every 7 seconds. I have found this to NOT be true with my male friends. Yes they like to talk about it a lot but they mainly gnarl an phoar and at page 3 tits and images of Cheryl Cole bending over in a short skirt. And I agree these images definitely get the blood flowing to my 'counter part', but what I'm asking is does sex, shagging, ****ing and all that's in between control your very existence? For me my sexual appetite has caused countless problems with past gilsfiends. I have tried a wide variety of sexual experiments, from fetishes to passionate love making, group activities to solo. Yet none of these curb my lust. I was very much in love wih my ex girlfriend, our lives were almost complete (if such a thing can happen) but my longing to have her every minute of every day became to much fo her to handle and ultimately destoyed our relationship, it also caused me to lose my job because my lusts ventured atside of the relationship.
I have found that women are just as sexually charged as men. Women, in my experience are also more likely to stray than men and have dangerous and adventurous sex with someone they hardly know just because I have a large cock!

I'm interested mainly in what the female members have to say here but I welcome responses from the guys who have similar issues or infact quite the opposite.

Thanks guys and girls

[1flagwriter]

Wow. I understand you line of thinking but a little discretion would have been more polite since there is a rather large community here and a variety of types of people...

But I believe that the nature of sex is hormonal and depends mostly on age and environmental factors, mostly. People peek sexually differently.

[Rhapsody]

While sex if often on the mind of young people say between 18 and 35 - it should never be the main need from day to day... when this happens I would say it is time to seek professional help for what ever it is that you are actually using sex for - look at it as though sex is your drug of choice and you need help getting off it... people do and can become addicted to sex - the chemical high it gives from the hormones that are released into the body during an orgasm.

I am a 42 year old female - been with the same man for 27 years (married to him 24 of those years) and while we did have sex about four times a day when we first got together and for many years after we got married - we never let the desire for sex get in the way of school, work or our family... we enjoyed hanging out with our friends and visiting others... sex came later.