[mylove0mylife]

My fiance is in the Navy, and I haven't seen him since July. I am very fond of sexual activities with him, and when he's home and when he was home (prior to leaving) we would have sex multiple times a day (minus that time of the month and what not). With him being gone he wants to play over the phone and on Skype, which I have done with him before, but for some reason lately it feels really weird for me. Not because it's with him, but because I'm paranoid of who will see, i.e. someone will over hear (even though I live alone), or someone over on his end will see my on video, or his headphones will mess up and what not.

The problem isn't that I'm not wanting it, because believe me, I do...and I feel bad because I always tell him I'm not in the mood then I go and masturbate afterwards because it's less...awkward? When he's home everything will be okay again, but does anyone else have this problem?

[nicoleb2]

I've never been in that situation, but I can understand your reluctance to do anything on the phone/skype.
It doesn't sound to me like you are losing the drive, just that you have what to me would be a normal fear of being seen/heard by someone else

[RuthAnnMarie]

Originally Posted by mylove0mylife

My fiance is in the Navy, and I haven't seen him since July. I am very fond of sexual activities with him, and when he's home and when he was home (prior to leaving) we would have sex multiple times a day (minus that time of the month and what not). With him being gone he wants to play over the phone and on Skype, which I have done with him before, but for some reason lately it feels really weird for me. Not because it's with him, but because I'm paranoid of who will see, i.e. someone will over hear (even though I live alone), or someone over on his end will see my on video, or his headphones will mess up and what not.

The problem isn't that I'm not wanting it, because believe me, I do...and I feel bad because I always tell him I'm not in the mood then I go and masturbate afterwards because it's less...awkward? When he's home everything will be okay again, but does anyone else have this problem?

i'm a perv and you may not want my insight, but what if the game is not getting caught? because if you are, you'll give one of his buddies a joyful day if everyone looks/sounds good--but surely your husband wants to keep you for himself, so he's on lookout so no one is nearby.

just a thought, you'd be amazed what you can adapt to if you really want to