[NikiPop]

i have a friend and im so attracted to her but shes not bi or les or anything..its like a little crush lol. i told her but she has a bf and she doesnt like me like that
she said she loves me like a sister and cares for me and shes always there when i need someone to lean on..but now i feel bad because she feels bad for telling me no.....but i totally can understand why she said that and i told her its fine..but i didnt mean to make her feel like she hurt me ya know? cause i tottaly understand why she said no and i still love her the same as a bestie...im glad this didnt come between us and that where still bff (CFL)

[sugahorse1]

I'm so sorry you are in this position.
I'd never considered myself bi, and I was in a relationship with my bofriend, but I too got very close with a friend. Well, it went "all the way" and we even ended up in a relationship - both of us had never considered ourselves bi.

I know the pain of having that person ripped away from you. To hear you can only love them as a friend. Those emotions are hard to just put away.
I still haven't totally dealt with my emotions, and it's something that's slowly surfacing in T. I think that's the only way I'm going to deal with it.

[Yoshi]

Can I ask who's this about? I sort of got a feeling..But not sure. O.o

[NikiPop]

llllllllllllllllooooooooollllllllllllllllllll dumb queston shiii!
u already kno but i rather be bfflacfl but i still want a lil somthin somthin LOLOLOL

[Nemo39122]

Originally Posted by NikiPop

i have a friend and im so attracted to her but shes not bi or les or anything..its like a little crush lol. i told her but she has a bf and she doesnt like me like that
she said she loves me like a sister and cares for me and shes always there when i need someone to lean on..but now i feel bad because she feels bad for telling me no.....but i totally can understand why she said that and i told her its fine..but i didnt mean to make her feel like she hurt me ya know? cause i tottaly understand why she said no and i still love her the same as a bestie...im glad this didnt come between us and that where still bff (CFL)

I've been in a similar situation myself for a little while. I never had the courage to tell her about it though. I could rant about it for awhile but I won't
Tell her not to feel bad, and then maybe you won't feel bad. Have you told her any of the things you've mentioned here? If you have, then just wait. I'm sure things will go back to normal very soon. Good luck