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Elder
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Not sure if this can be discussed here. Just curious I guess. Not that I want to be one. Is not a moral issue because "free sex" "premartial sex" happens every day. Again, not a "moral" issue as both men and women have had "multiple partners" in their lifetime.
So why is prostitution so hated and illegal. A male friend's opinion is that women would make tooooo much money and why pay for what one can get for free. Not really a good answer, yet it is sooooo frowned upon by society. Porn in a sense is prostituion as they are getting paid for sex for the viewers entertainment? Sex is love? Love is sex? |
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Its not hated and illegal everywhere. It tends to be more so in areas where certain religions are dominant. It's also about control. People don't "like" the idea that anyone can just pay a woman (usually) for sex. I guess it just goes against some people's ideals of what is right and good. Its similar to nude/topless dancing. When I was 18 I met a topless dancer and she was a normal person. It really made me think about it and though I wouldn't do it, I can respect someone who does.
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Not sure, I think they should legalize it, it would be controlled and much safer, "pimping" would have to a professional thing and the women would be able to get checked, hospitalized if needed, housed, payed properly and still make money. People kidnapping children to be forced in to prostitution would be easier to focus on.
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My mom says that in Germany it is legal, and they actually check the "girls" for STD. If the "girl" is clean she's tagged. At least that's the way it was when we were over there, and I was in preschool then which was about 20 years ago. It may have changed.
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I think it is because the government can't regulate it. How many prostitutes would report their earnings to the tax man honestly?
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I have long held the belief that in a free society one owns one's own body. If someone chooses to grant sexual favors in exchange for money, who am I or anyone else to stop them. If I want to sell a kidney, who has they moral right to say I cannot do so, it is MY kidney.
After all if a woman marries a man (or vice versa) because he is wealthy, it is the same thing, no one is arresting "gold diggers" last time I checked. |
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Wow, I had to refrain from a very sarcastic remark. I am totally proud of myself, even if I am telling you I didn't say un-said remark. Tee hee.
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while I don't agree with the whole idea of prostitution, I do wish it was legal. then the pimps would be held more accountable for abuse(a boss can't do to workers what pimps do to their workers) and there would be a HECK of a lot less killings of young women.
I watched on TV once where the statistics show that 8 times out of 10 it's the woman that goes to jail and not the customer-guy. why doesn't a guy ever kill the "johns" that hire the prostitutes? I've always wondered that It's never done ...... yet thousands of women have been murdered in the industry..... seems women are regarded as more vile or something. and the "johns" are often even married and doing such things behind their families back, sometimes spreading diseases to their "loved ones" ..... I just don't get it......... *sigh*....... who is more vile???? fins __________________ “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson |
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I've heard that in France it is legal and that the girls have to get monthly STD screenings. I also don't think it would be THAT hard to regulate taxes and such with them... I mean, it's a service, like any other. What works for the plumber or the electrician legally/financially could work for the prostitute, too, right? So it's a little less sexy to carry a ledger around with you... Some guys might like that, hehehe.
Though, I'm pretty much down for legalizing and taxing everything... |
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The one-on-one sexual encounter is not the full issue. The street prostitution, as it would be made "legal" is.
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I'd think there would also be less abuse if prostitution was legal and regulated. Am thinking also more on the line of "brothels". Brothels in every state... Or gee, how about a "brothel in the line of an amusement park, housing a variety of tastes and excitement".... Can you visualize a brothel theme park the size of Disney World? Wonder if the men would be standing in line as folks do in over crowded amusement parks..
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On "child trafficking"....Legalizing prostitution would not make "child trafficking" worse..imho............such a different topic, brings tears to my eyes just typing this..Those filthy people who want children grrrrrrrrrrr...
I would like to think that legalizing prostitution would stop child trafficking but that really is not true...wishful thinking is all that would be....... Guess I really don't know what to say about this... Sadness overcomes me... |
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People who have sexual "needs" should not be allowed in the world of normal human relationships unmediated by money. In the world of normal human relationships not mediated by money, we can deal with people who have desires, passions, and hopes, and who can deal with rejections and subsequent disappointment. People who cannot deal with rejections and who have "needs" should be routed into legalized prostitution that would "meet their needs". There should be two streams of men - those who can deal with rejections and the whole wide world of women who cannot be bought and those who cannot deal with rejections. Surely it can be regulated. Sex is very much like food - many people need it and it can transmit disease. So just as grocery stores and food service businesses are legal but regulated, so should be prostitution. It is simply unfair to so many of us that people who cannot deal with rejections are allowed in the community. Prostitutes charge not just for the service, time, and skill, and a premium for risk, but also for the obligation to serve clients. They do not have the right to reject service and there is a fee associated with that. It makes so much sense. This is what prompted this rant: http://forums.psychcentral.com/relat...dibly-mad.html |
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hi there, its illegal to sell 'sex services' but escorting is selling ' time and companionship and you choose the service provided' well theres no difference just the legal loop holes. its one of the oldest professions that is a '***** house'. hope this answers your question. takecare xxx.
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I believe it's mostly a male dominance thing, like why women had to wear hats in churches and be overly clothed; they were "bad"/temptresses, it wasn't the man's fault, he can't help but be a man and want to mate. Women don't have those urges, don't you know. When was the last time you heard of a gigolo/male prostitute being arrested? Some men are violent toward gay men and not much nicer toward women taking control of their own sexuality either.
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