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#1
May 11, 2011, 04:04 AM
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It's not the size, but how you use it.......... Beauty is in the eye of the beholder..........To each his own........
But don't you have to pass the qualifying rounds before you can become a contender? Beauty is subjective...doesn't that just mean that on a scale of 1-10, someone's 6 might actually be someone else's 8, but come on, no one's 2 is actually going to be someone else's 10. It doesn't work that way. You can't make the elephant man sexy no matter how hard you try. And how much better can you really use your ****? What do you mean it's how you use it. Of course size matters. Does a person with a small **** really stand a chance, or are we coming up with excuses to make ourselves feel better; to cover up the idea that there may be true inequality we can never overcome? Are girls propagating this idea out of sheer pity? Don't you think what we're really trying to go for is some type of borderline masochism. Can we really succeed in substituing idealistic fantasies with some idea of equality? Is that how things really work? How can we criticize the breast implant. Isn't medical science is our only hope? Shouldn't that be one of it's most dire responsiblities. To free us from the prejudices put on us by nature. How can we not be sickened by the sheer hypocrisy of how an average person's tendency to prioritize this idea of a "personality" while beautiful people date other beautiful people. How fat date the fat and the ugly date the ugly. Have we moved anywhere? Can sex ultimately be replaced with intimacy? Should it? ...ya, this could've probably been framed in a less biased, naive, and pc sort of a way, but then this thread wouldn't attract the typical wave of wonderful 'oh what a bitter fat but tiny, 40 yr old virgin that I am' type of comments that typically tends to come along, distracting everyone from ever dissecting these issues. So have your best crack at it. Last edited by wanttoheal; May 13, 2011 at 08:06 AM. Reason: administrative edit |
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May 25, 2011, 07:27 AM
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i would like to hear from a few ladies and or gay men on the issue of size. when swimming i shrink to maybe 3 " but aroused i am a full 6" whT ABOUT GIRTH?
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May 25, 2011, 02:22 PM
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Not sure I totally understand all the points you raise, but I know that women can get bored with even the most physically attractive men, and vice-versa.
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May 25, 2011, 06:06 PM
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I also didn't follow all of your points, but there are a couple things I want to point out.
FYI, I'm a girl and engaged to the only man I ever really been with, so I don't know how helpful any of this will be. There are people attracted to all kinds. It's been studied, actually, that like is attracted to like (point in case, my fiance and I have been mistaken for brother and sister...). Similar body types, etc. tend to go for one another. I don't really know why, but for some reason it happens. All sorts of people find love and happiness. Next, there is such a thing as too big. I think what makes someone attractive is their self-confidence and self esteem. You can't love someone who doesn't love themselves. But then, you can't really love someone who is only in love with themselves, either. There has to be balance. If you think you are worthy of love, and that you are happy with the way you look, then you will find someone. And yes, that is part of your personality. Negativity just pushes others away. |
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May 25, 2011, 09:20 PM
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Totally agree that there is definitely such a thing as too big. Size matters - to an extent. I am a firm believer in personality making all the difference. The most attractive guy with a decent size to him will be ugly as hell if he has a bad attitude or nasty personality. Just like a guy who may not be "hot" or have the biggest one in the world could be super sexy to you because he has an awesome personality.
http://www.jyi.org/volumes/volume6/i...ures/feng.html Check this out. People of a certain level of attractiveness tend to flock towards those of the same level of attractiveness. This goes with friends too - not just significant others. There is scientific evidence of why certain things are attractive to people. http://psychcentral.com/blog/archive...g-preferences/ That is a good one too - from this website even! So of course there are extremes.....I don't think size is the end-all-be-all. Not to mention - some women can't achieve orgasm no matter what. And those that can, a lot of them can't reach it vaginally but have to be stimulated at their clitoris to orgasm. And even then there are so many other things that go into it - smell, visual, touch etc.... A guy with a large penis can be terrible in bed just like a guy with a small penis can be awesome in bed. Way too complex to make it such a black and white situation. |
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May 27, 2011, 07:12 AM
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I must say that everyone is different sizes down there and you need to match, somewhat.
It's really not about the size. Smaller penises can be used very effectively, and trimming your pubic hair can make it look a lot bigger too. The clitoris is the main location of female sex related nerve endings, and its on the outside. You don';t have to hit the back to find it. 
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May 27, 2011, 02:17 PM
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Science had shown that those who are the smallest when not aroused, will be the largest when aroused. This is due to the tone of the muscles and blood vessels etc that surround the area...
A little humor here... a joke I heard long ago... Guys in a locker room shower.... most all were athletes, well endowed, when a nerd comes in to shower and shows but a very small attribute. The guys all laugh, and one of them shouts," Who you gonna satisfy with that? "To which the nerd replies, "Me."  So you see, all things are subjective.
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Jun 10, 2011, 10:37 PM
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I think size matters to the male ego. I met someone I was crazy about - very sexy and attractive. He had an inferiority complex about it. It's all about love and if you love a person, you love all of them. A skillful male will know what to do. An unskillful male cannot be taught. But that's just my thoughts from experience!
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Jun 11, 2011, 08:24 AM
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I have to say I know for a fact on this case science is wrong. haha personal experience lol
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