[fifa2012]

I have been dating my gf for 8 months now and we havent been sexually active but we do stuff like exploring one another, she is also still a virgin. On april 15 this year we were doing stuff and she
Happened to seat on me while we were naked, no sperms came out nor did i insert my penis into her vagina little did i know this was the beginning of a long pregancy on her mind. She was last for a period that month and she started to think she was pregnant so we bought pregancy tests over and over and they all showed negative she relaxed and then got her period, it was a relief for the time. Then she started been late on periods and started panicking again this made me buy her pregancy tests over and over again and results were also negative, we went to the doctors and they told her she ws pregant, she couldnt even do a pop smear because it was so tight, her stomach started growing big now she thinks she is pregant again, i took her to do two ultra sounds and all said she wasnt pregnant, i told her she is gaining weight and not eating healthly, she thinks am crazy and that we dont believe her,even the doctors. She doesnt want to have a baby dats for sure so anytime this comes up she wants to do an ultra sound and i dont have the money to be doing everytime, she says her heart skips a beat when she is stressed nowdays and also says i should just leave her alone but i know she doesnt mean it and dats why i just keep going with her, we relationship isnt fun so much, we havent had sex and she also thinks she is pregnant whenever she is lateon her period and with the stomach growing big she is so conviced. She doesnt want to go to her doctors anymore nowdays always wants to visit the abortation clinic to do blood work and ultra sounds.....i think she is delusional..i just dont know and last week she said she something was kickng in her stomach.....i just dnt know what to do.

[einundzwanzig]

ya, thats no good, i actually am pregnant, first time ever, never even thought about pregnancy before until now, when my period was late, their always on time, so i new this was strange for me. anyway, ya, she sounds delusional, to always think your pregnant, but from a girl's perspective, be fair, the girl has about much to worry than the guy does, he can up and leave if the girl really was pregnant, lucky my bf loves me so much, he is happier about the baby than i am lol....

you no, the more someone thinks about something, its a self fullfilling profecy, i think thats the english phrase, when you want or think of something all the time, you actually start to believe or or shown the signs of it, like pregnancy, there was a csi episode that did that, a girl thought she was pregnant with her fathers kid, ya messed up story and she actually showed the physical signs or a pregnancy, without a baby in it.

hope things are better with your gf, sounds like she just needs to chill out, its not like you even had sex with her.. even then, i could see more of her worry, now, its just wierd for me.

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[Happy2bHere]

I'm sorry. I'm sending you virtual hugs.
I don't remember what it's called, but I was watching a medical show on discovery and I also remember symptoms of pregnancy possibly occurring when someone is only under the impression that they are pregnant. Maybe there is a mental component that you could research.
On a personal level of advice, I have had similar fears to your girlfriend in the past. It's good that you keep supporting her. My period is often irregular also, but I have often become afraid that someone has gotten me pregnant even before my period should arrive. When I was pregnant I think I started to get used to what would change and what I needed to do. Although I still jump to the conclusion that I am pregnant sometimes my fear is not as bad so I am more patient about waiting a month to find out more easily.
Maybe if you work together to form a plan of action, thoroughly detailing everything down to precise dollars and possible sickness, etc., that you would do in the event of pregnancy it might help her calm down?
I hope this helps.