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Old Nov 25, 2011, 11:50 AM
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I've gotten more scared lately last night he touched my thigh and it really scared me. I don't want to hurt his feelings but everything
is scaring me right now. Then i'm worried he won't want me anymore - that i won't be any fun if we don't mess around. But it' ma horrible for me right now
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Old Nov 25, 2011, 12:35 PM
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Can you tell him about it?
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Old Nov 25, 2011, 12:47 PM
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It's really difficult. I get scared trying to talk to him and no words come out, and then i freeze and then i think i leave my body.
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Old Nov 25, 2011, 04:37 PM
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Keep trying. No rush, though; try to just slow down.
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Old Nov 26, 2011, 12:09 AM
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Ok. Was able to tell him had a flashback today about a butcher knife. He came over and took me on an careduting. Then i did tell him i was scared the other night when he touched my leg. I think we will take a break from being very physical for awhile. Hope he doeznt get bored.
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Old Nov 26, 2011, 12:13 AM
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Just remember, always:
Your feelings first, then his. But always, yours FIRST!
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Old Nov 26, 2011, 12:39 AM
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Your feelings & VALUES have to come first. If the guy gets bored, then he really doesn't care about YOU in the first place & you are better off without him than with someone who only cares about their own selfish desires.
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Old Nov 26, 2011, 12:43 AM
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He came over and took me on an careduting.
Careduting? I'm sorry, I have no idea what this word could be.
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Old Nov 26, 2011, 12:54 AM
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I type from phone and it was a typo. He took me on an outing. Lol
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Old Nov 26, 2011, 02:34 AM
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I type from phone and it was a typo. He took me on an outing. Lol
That's nice. Where did you go?
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Old Nov 26, 2011, 04:05 AM
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Oh we went to a place here in Colorado called Manitou Springs. We had tea at my favorite place alery d looked in a music shop and art galleries and then window shopped the little stores. :-)
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