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Dec 22, 2011, 11:06 AM
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I have always only been able to have oneorgasm. My boyfriend gets frustrated because he feels like hes failed. Hes good at what he does... But im afraid to bring it up to my dr... Can an obgyn even help that?
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Dec 22, 2011, 01:19 PM
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I just went through a 2 1/2 year stint without any orgasms at all, due to genital surgery. Even before that, I had a really hard time getting off, unless I was masturbating. When my (now ex-)boyfriend and I got together, I just told him I have a problem with achieving orgasms, and not to worry about it, that he could have enough orgasms for the both of us. I reassured him that it had nothing to do with him.
Not having to worry about getting me off made our sex life so much better, since there was no pressure on either of us. On the occasions before the surgery where he did manage to get me off, it was always a great surprise that I came, and we treated it like an awesome bonus.
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