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Old Mar 22, 2013, 10:17 PM
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I always have erection and masturbates on average 3 times daily.
Culture and religion doesn't support sex outside marriage. All the time there is sex on mind. This is making me restless.

If any girl hugs me, she can feel my erection and soon moves away thinking me to be cheap. I tried meditation, sports and even keep myself busy in work; but as soon as I'm alone at home the condition returns.

I'm anxious because of this. Is there any therapist who can help me? Will one time sex help me?
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 03:10 AM
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How old are you? I'm guessing you're a teen. It's normal to have frequent erections when you're young, but if you have erections that last four or more hours, you should go to a hospital. I doubt one-time sex will cure you. It will satisfy you for a little while, but you will get aroused again. A sex therapist might be able to help you, although I'm not sure anything's wrong.
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 02:54 PM
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Some medications do this as well. Are you taking any psychiatric meds. I have the opposite issue as you and it is due to meds.
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Old Mar 23, 2013, 08:57 PM
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I'm 28 years old and still a virgin. I get erection as soon as any lady crosses me and even when I'm chatting with them.

No, I'm not on any medication
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Old Mar 25, 2013, 12:29 PM
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I have the female version of Soups problem, i lose control when i'm talking to men and it makes my breathing and underwear change etc
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Old Mar 25, 2013, 05:15 PM
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I guess if you are having arousal to the state that it is interfering with your life and causing you distress, talking to a doctor might help. I'm sure there are ways of lowering libido. Talking to the doctor isn't always easy... but it could be short-term embarrassment for long-term benefit.
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Old Mar 25, 2013, 09:35 PM
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I'm another female with the same sort of problem. I'm always thinking about sex, and sizing up the men I meet as potential partners. I am wet all the time and masturbate a fair lot and need to change my knickers often because they are usually damp....

I've recently been labled as bipolar....
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Old Mar 25, 2013, 11:10 PM
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I'm another female with the same sort of problem. I'm always thinking about sex, and sizing up the men I meet as potential partners. I am wet all the time and masturbate a fair lot and need to change my knickers often because they are usually damp....

I've recently been labled as bipolar....
I never knew another girl with the same problem as me, thats amazing you said it :0
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Old Mar 25, 2013, 11:18 PM
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Having a super high sex drive can be a "symptom" of bipolar. I was the exact same way. Having sex constantly, etc. my meds kinda leveled it out.
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Old Mar 26, 2013, 11:09 AM
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Well, it may be a bipolar sign. You mentioned that this happens with any female and that seems notable. I have a high sex drive too but the only person that makes me wet (I mean, soaking wet) is my partner. So, I would certainly suggest talking about it with a therapist for sure.
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Old Mar 26, 2013, 08:41 PM
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Aha... after reading some of these posts I feel vindicated for the wet panties thread
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Old Mar 26, 2013, 08:52 PM
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Aha... after reading some of these posts I feel vindicated for the wet panties thread
And so you should .
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Old Mar 27, 2013, 02:33 AM
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I always have erection and masturbates on average 3 times daily.
Culture and religion doesn't support sex outside marriage. All the time there is sex on mind. This is making me restless.

If any girl hugs me, she can feel my erection and soon moves away thinking me to be cheap. I tried meditation, sports and even keep myself busy in work; but as soon as I'm alone at home the condition returns.

I'm anxious because of this. Is there any therapist who can help me? Will one time sex help me?

I saw your other post-28 yrs old virgin no meds

First off you're draining huge amounts of vital nutrients and HGH(human growth hormone) by masturbating 3 x daily.From what i read and believe,you're also excessively draining free aminos from your cerbral spinal fluid=not good.You're also causing elevated inflammations/inflammatory hormones(get a blood test to confirm).
Another clue "have sex on the mind all the time".Your inflammations could be high enough to mimique being in heat constantly.The fact you live alone and the lack of oxytocin/serotonin especially when home alone adds to the problem.
"Anxious" or anxiety is just the start and it gets alot worse.Just search online for chronic masturbation or porn addiction(= chronic masturbation).
I had a muscle spasm in my perineum which also mimiqued being in heat constantly so same as you sex is always on the mind.That is no way to live and even people with a high drive should not have sex on the mind every waking moment in my opinion.
You may wanna look into the following supplements.Omega 3 epa/dha--5htp--amino acid complex--multi vitamin--quercetin with bromelain--pycnogenol.This restores nutrients and suppresses/clears out inflammations.
The women posting to this thread,ok women dont lose the huge "nutrients and hgh" that men lose.If any of you have issues with cold hands/feet that could be a sign of high inflammations.Anyone taking meds be aware 5htp and amino acids can cause death/serotonin syndrome so be careful and dont mix meds and supplements.
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Old Mar 27, 2013, 11:27 AM
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I saw your other post-28 yrs old virgin no meds

First off you're draining huge amounts of vital nutrients and HGH(human growth hormone) by masturbating 3 x daily.From what i read and believe,you're also excessively draining free aminos from your cerbral spinal fluid=not good.You're also causing elevated inflammations/inflammatory hormones(get a blood test to confirm).
Another clue "have sex on the mind all the time".Your inflammations could be high enough to mimique being in heat constantly.The fact you live alone and the lack of oxytocin/serotonin especially when home alone adds to the problem.
"Anxious" or anxiety is just the start and it gets alot worse.Just search online for chronic masturbation or porn addiction(= chronic masturbation).
I had a muscle spasm in my perineum which also mimiqued being in heat constantly so same as you sex is always on the mind.That is no way to live and even people with a high drive should not have sex on the mind every waking moment in my opinion.
You may wanna look into the following supplements.Omega 3 epa/dha--5htp--amino acid complex--multi vitamin--quercetin with bromelain--pycnogenol.This restores nutrients and suppresses/clears out inflammations.
The women posting to this thread,ok women dont lose the huge "nutrients and hgh" that men lose.If any of you have issues with cold hands/feet that could be a sign of high inflammations.Anyone taking meds be aware 5htp and amino acids can cause death/serotonin syndrome so be careful and dont mix meds and supplements.
I'd add astaxanthin to that list-thats a bare minimum list.As i said i had a permanent spasm in my perineum which puts your brain into a hyper sexual mode all the time.BUT i didnt know it at the time i started trying to recover from major depression and bipolar 1 ultra rapid cycling,i also had(still have) pelvic myoneuropathy/contracted pelvic floor muscle.This alone causes a cycle of sustained inflammations i'm still fighting.
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Old Apr 02, 2013, 04:21 PM
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I have the female version of Soups problem, i lose control when i'm talking to men and it makes my breathing and underwear change etc
me too. But I'm married so I get sex. But I think about sex all the time and if any guy (and sometimes girls) talk to me, I fantasize about being with them. If I were a guy, I'd always have an erection lol
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Old Apr 02, 2013, 04:24 PM
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Having a super high sex drive can be a "symptom" of bipolar. I was the exact same way. Having sex constantly, etc. my meds kinda leveled it out.
I'm bipolar as well! Just replied above about thinking about sex all the time and then read more posts and noticed other are bipolar as well. If anyone wants to chat more about it all, feel free to private message me. It's great knowing I'm not alone.

(btw, I'll have to change panties after finishing reading this post!)
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Old Apr 05, 2013, 12:42 PM
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It seems there are more females than males who feel sexually aroused 24x7
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Old Apr 08, 2013, 02:28 AM
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It seems there are more females than males who feel sexually aroused 24x7
also because i noticed after guys erupt they feel satisfied and whereas even if i relieve in bed 30mins or more before i go to school i still end up feeling restless around guys on the train to school. its crowded with business men that make my legs all rubby
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Old Apr 08, 2013, 01:48 PM
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also because i noticed after guys erupt they feel satisfied and whereas even if i relieve in bed 30mins or more before i go to school i still end up feeling restless around guys on the train to school. its crowded with business men that make my legs all rubby
You seem to be right.
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Old Apr 08, 2013, 11:27 PM
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also because i noticed after guys erupt they feel satisfied and whereas even if i relieve in bed 30mins or more before i go to school i still end up feeling restless around guys on the train to school. its crowded with business men that make my legs all rubby
there is a thing called a "refractory period" and men tend to have it much more than women
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Old Apr 09, 2013, 04:46 AM
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there is a thing called a "refractory period" and men tend to have it much more than women
sounds scientific
thats why it wud be nice to be married/live with a bf cos they can keep you happy lol or i guess they won't if they are refracting..

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You seem to be right.
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Old Apr 09, 2013, 12:39 PM
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sounds scientific
thats why it wud be nice to be married/live with a bf cos they can keep you happy lol or i guess they won't if they are refracting..
Refractory relates to erections - if you live with a man who still has hands, tongue, lips, etc., he should be able to still keep you happy, because these body parts are always available.
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Old Apr 09, 2013, 01:03 PM
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Refractory relates to erections - if you live with a man who still has hands, tongue, lips, etc., he should be able to still keep you happy, because these body parts are always available.
you are probably right hambam but when i cuddle with guys they use hands/tongue/lips but its when they have erections under my lap lol. i always wondered if guys still like girls at all after their erections burst. if they still like girls after then i agree they would use their hands/tongue/lips!

when i get married i will have more time with a man like all day in bed and will test to see if he likes using his hands/tongue/lip after his lap has burst etc.
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Old Apr 09, 2013, 02:32 PM
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you are probably right hambam but when i cuddle with guys they use hands/tongue/lips but its when they have erections under my lap lol. i always wondered if guys still like girls at all after their erections burst. if they still like girls after then i agree they would use their hands/tongue/lips!

when i get married i will have more time with a man like all day in bed and will test to see if he likes using his hands/tongue/lip after his lap has burst etc.
he will need to work and you might, too!!

having to work and run the dishwasher has nothing to do with the refractory period!
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Old Apr 10, 2013, 06:03 AM
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he will need to work and you might, too!!

having to work and run the dishwasher has nothing to do with the refractory period!
oh it would be depressing if i marry and then end up not being able to kiss/cuddle a lot. i guess thats why people have affairs and now that i think of it its tricky if you get married and still feel weak legs around hot guys. it happens to me a lot and i hope it stops happening after i marry.
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