What is sex like?

Hello everyone, i am a young virgin lol. I just wanna put this question out there to people to see what there experiences are.

I want to know what both oral and sex are like as im just curious. I have never posted anything like this before but it would be good to know how it feels and to learn from what people say.

Thank You. . XXX

I think it would be best for you to check out the Planned Parenthood website and see the sexual health topics section. They specialize in discussions regarding sex and cover just about all the bases.

There is no way I could give a comprehensive sexual education lesson to you since I am not a professional and my experiences are severely limited.

essexgirl - the thing about sex is that its different for everyone. for some people it can be quite enjoyable, breathtaking, amazing, exhausting and all that which you hear about it the locker rooms, slumber parties and what have you. for others its not so good and for some its the most horrible thing they have ever done or felt...

what Im saying is that someday when the time is right for you it will happen and it will either be fantastic, great, not so good or horrible. your body will tell you which it is and why.

thats about all i can tell you. my state doesnt allow me to talk sex with teens and children online in terms of what to do and how to do it and how it makes you feel other than what I stated.

if you are a teen ager and we go into more detail then that then we could get into some trouble here talking in detail about our sex experiences. some states, locations have rules about what adults can do and say to teens and children about sex. there may even be some rules that the owner of this site has to follow where children and teens are concerned. so you probably wont get many non general replies.

for detailed sex talk and information like someone already posted it may be best if you talk with someone in your real time location like someone at planned parenthood, your doctor, your parents, a trusted teacher.

As above not gonna talk details because this is not an age restricted site. But i will say don't rush yourself and certainly don't let others influence you. I have friends who really regret the way they lost their virginity and for some it still has an impact on their intimate relationships now. Also now i'm older i really do understand the importance of safe sex, unfortunately for women some of the very common STD's can cause problems when you want to start a family. Wow i sound so old lol But when things are right and safe, sex can be a fun and loving thing. And sometimes amazing too

honestly, sex is a lot like masturbation with a dildo, lol. that's the best way I can describe it to someone who hasn't had sex before.

oral is like...um....masturbating with really really wet fingers but with less dexterity and less pressure. Personally, I'm not a huge fan of oral. I prefer fingers over a tongue.

sorry, I know those aren't the best descriptions. But really the best way to get an idea for what sex is like is to masturbate a lot with a dildo and your fingers.

i think there's a part of all of us that wants sex to be spontaneous and a great time. but, it's not all spontaneous. sex is what you make of it and the most important part is who you choose to share the experience it with. a lot of advice out there on sex is bad. frankly, i am a romantic. but, i know that i cannot automatically expect all partners to be that way. so, careful screening of partners is very important. that's what dating is all about. i have rushed into sex because my partner was "ready." but, emotionally, i was not and it was a big mistake. if you like passion and making out beforehand, you should not be too shy to tell your date that's what you're looking for. romance is not necessarily being treated like a queen. romance - at least to me - is taking your time, getting to know each other, sharing kisses and hand-holding. and, it's something that continues in the relationship and is not limited to just the getting to know you part. so, sex is partially what you make it. choose a partner carefully. tell them what you like and what you don't. it's okay to say "stop!" i think it's best to date people around your own age since you will have more in common. my new line to potential partners? i like to take things slow. if they don't like it, bye-bye. lastly, sex should always be safe. if they don't believe in playing it safe well, that's a deal breaker and it's bye-bye time. i hope this helps. all the best to you.