Premature ejaculation

samuel45 · Jul 20, 2012 at 11:29 AM

Hello everyone this is my first post, I hope you help me
I'm with my girlfriend for 5 months. We love each other, but still in our relationship something is going wrong. She doesn't have an orgasm in any position, however I've got problems with ejaculation, my orgasm's really fast, this is the reason? Can I do something about it ?

bamapsych · Jul 20, 2012 at 01:41 PM

Perform oral on her until she is on the brink of orgasm. Then switch to vaginal penetration. She should still continue to stimulate her clit. Maybe you can both orgasm together that way

bighands · Jul 20, 2012 at 02:20 PM

If she doesn't mind performing oral, she could perform oral on you first until you have your orgasm. Then, you perform oral on her as you recover. When you can get an erection again, if she hasn't had her orgasm yet, you can then try intercourse again.

You'll get her closer by performing oral on her and you'll probably be able to last longer since it'll be your second time in the same session.

Have fun and good luck!

drinkcoffe · Jul 21, 2012 at 06:32 PM

How old are you?
Quickly begun. Only five months ... take your time.

With her you had your first time? Have you previously did with others?

imthemaster · Jul 22, 2012 at 03:54 AM

I think foreplay is the key.

I had this same problem but i tried to satisfy my girl with massage, kissing, oral and my fingers. Try it!

Women love it

drinkcoffe · Jul 22, 2012 at 08:12 AM

Colleague above gave you good advice. Your woman can should like such things.
But I think she may still not think of a serious sex now.

drinkcoffe · Jul 22, 2012 at 05:20 PM

That's good idea, imthemaster.
My friend tell me about a really good course for men. Maybe can something like this would help you? I can't remember his name .. ;/

samuel45 · Jul 23, 2012 at 10:55 AM

hm, she doesn't want to try oral... this is the problem too...
about any courses, I found this in google "Gush Control - how to stop premature ejaculation"

Do you know anything about it?

Scotty204 · Jul 25, 2012 at 01:58 PM

Go to a mens clinic they can give you some cream to put on

mark_kh · Jul 31, 2012 at 06:17 AM

Hi,
Is there is some kind of exercise or someway out to control ejaculation.
I had read somewhere like do masturbate regularly or on alternate days and and when the liqued start to ejacalte stop there... start again with a minute break.. doing this way one can control early ejaculation.

what you all say will this work.

BDPpartner · Aug 06, 2012 at 06:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by samuel45

hm, she doesn't want to try oral... this is the problem too...
about any courses, I found this in google "Gush Control - how to stop premature ejaculation"

Do you know anything about it?

Men in the porn industry have been known to use a rubber donut like aid to help delay ejaculation. It's put on to when your erect and should be tight around the base of your shaft; an alternative to this is getting your gf to tightly grasp the base of your penis when your feeling your orgasm build, give it a minute or so and them resume 'play' but at a slower speed to start with. Your gf will really need to squeeze the base quite firmly, but you'll probably find that she'll enjoy having control over you

Leos · Aug 11, 2012 at 10:11 AM

there are a lot of exercises that you can do to have a little more control of your ejaculation. Just make a google search and you will see a lot of results

psych_sc · Jan 21, 2013 at 07:22 AM

Hi,

I searched alot in Google.

Please share some link.

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samuel45 New Member Member Since Jul 2012 Posts: 2 12	Jul 20, 2012 at 11:29 AM #1 Hello everyone this is my first post, I hope you help me I'm with my girlfriend for 5 months. We love each other, but still in our relationship something is going wrong. She doesn't have an orgasm in any position, however I've got problems with ejaculation, my orgasm's really fast, this is the reason? Can I do something about it ?
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bamapsych Member Member Since May 2012 Location: Tennessee Posts: 356 12 164 hugs given	Jul 20, 2012 at 01:41 PM #2 Perform oral on her until she is on the brink of orgasm. Then switch to vaginal penetration. She should still continue to stimulate her clit. Maybe you can both orgasm together that way
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drinkcoffe New Member Member Since Jul 2012 Posts: 4 12	Jul 21, 2012 at 06:32 PM #4 How old are you? Quickly begun. Only five months ... take your time. With her you had your first time? Have you previously did with others?
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imthemaster New Member Member Since Jul 2012 Posts: 1 12	Jul 22, 2012 at 03:54 AM #5 I think foreplay is the key. I had this same problem but i tried to satisfy my girl with massage, kissing, oral and my fingers. Try it! Women love it
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drinkcoffe New Member Member Since Jul 2012 Posts: 4 12	Jul 22, 2012 at 08:12 AM #6 Colleague above gave you good advice. Your woman can should like such things. But I think she may still not think of a serious sex now.
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drinkcoffe New Member Member Since Jul 2012 Posts: 4 12	Jul 22, 2012 at 05:20 PM #7 That's good idea, imthemaster. My friend tell me about a really good course for men. Maybe can something like this would help you? I can't remember his name .. ;/
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samuel45 New Member Member Since Jul 2012 Posts: 2 12	Jul 23, 2012 at 10:55 AM #8 hm, she doesn't want to try oral... this is the problem too... about any courses, I found this in google "Gush Control - how to stop premature ejaculation" Do you know anything about it?
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Scotty204 Member Member Since Feb 2012 Location: Toronto, Canada Posts: 403 12	Jul 25, 2012 at 01:58 PM #9 Go to a mens clinic they can give you some cream to put on __________________ Life is short so enjoy it!
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mark_kh New Member Member Since Jul 2012 Posts: 1 12	Jul 31, 2012 at 06:17 AM #10 Hi, Is there is some kind of exercise or someway out to control ejaculation. I had read somewhere like do masturbate regularly or on alternate days and and when the liqued start to ejacalte stop there... start again with a minute break.. doing this way one can control early ejaculation. what you all say will this work.
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Leos New Member Member Since Aug 2012 Posts: 3 12	Aug 11, 2012 at 10:11 AM #12 there are a lot of exercises that you can do to have a little more control of your ejaculation. Just make a google search and you will see a lot of results
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psych_sc New Member Member Since Jan 2013 Posts: 2 11	Jan 21, 2013 at 07:22 AM #13 Hi, I searched alot in Google. Please share some link.
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