[OliversTwisted94]

I have been overwhelmed so badly lately
I have been..... *Stimulated* ALL the time lately; like, I am always aroused, fantasizing, and wanting to masturbate. I feel like a damn rabbit
I just can't get some of these dirty images and thoughts out of my head and it's so frustrating. I don't have a lover, and it's hard for me to even date; so now, I'm just a fat, lonely, desperate sl*t (at least that's how I feel about myself )

What can I do to alleviate these needs???

[Mike_J]

Do you think that some of the issue is that you are transferring general loneliness into sexual desire? And/or that you relate sex to being desired, you know that you are not just a sex object you are a complete person, and you should only be with someone who is going to appreciate all of you.

[LiteraryLark]

Welcome to the club. Most people feel that way and your thoughts are completely normal. When people are stressed, they turn to fantasies, even if it's something they'd never do in real life. That's what fantasies are for, to let out frustrations.

[Harley47]

Hello again Rose.

Mike, I think, brought up a good point for self analysis, and I think Doc brought up a good point in general. I'd tell you that as long as you're not doing it to excess (such as "I didn't do ____ because I was _____"), you're fine. You're 19, right? It's pretty normal to feel like a rabbit at that age. Trust me. At there, doing that.

If it's something you truly consider out of the normal realm of age, can you identify anything that might've caused this? Peak in stress as of late, or something bothering you? I read your other topic and responded...do you believe it may be an offshoot of that?

At any rate, you are certainly not a "slut" by any stretch of the imagination, and I beg you not to think of yourself that way, or any of the other adjectives you picked. Arousal is a normal part of life, and especially in one's teens/prime/WhateverYouWantToCallIt. That certainly doesn't make you a "slut." It just means you're human. Try not to let it get you down Rose.

My best,
Harley

[Leed]

Honey, I'm going to agree with Harley. You are just plain normal! There is nothing wrong with you. So don't feel guilty, okay? Hugs, Lee

[Big Mama]

I'm sorry you feel this way. It is very normal for your sexdrive to be on hyper drive at your age. I don't know how you are but it is not uncommon for females to be extra "needy" near that time of the month. Could that be part of the issue?

I hate to hear someone so young talk so down about there self. Self image means alot. I am a big girl and it has some down falls but it also has it's advantage. If you make friends there real friends. It's not cool to like the big girl you have something strong people can see on the outside that lives in the inside to show who you really are.
Some guys don't like boney chicks. A bigger meaty girl is certinly softer and fluffier to sleep with (says some old friends) Now that I'm no example of youth. So be patient you'll find a guy and hope this "need soon passes".