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Old Aug 12, 2012, 12:18 AM
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I've been dating my bf on & off but we've been together for a year since our last breakup, I'm only 15 but we do love each other, we kinda talk about having sex but I don't know when the right time is. He will ask me if I'm ready to because he obviously is, he says he's fine with that & will wait till I'm ready but I just don't want him to get bored with what we do now, but I would want to loose my v card with a guy that I care about and cares about me. What to do what to do.........

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Old Aug 12, 2012, 12:27 AM
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Do not ever have sex just because you think he will get bored. Do it when you know you are ready. I don't believe 15 is old enough to know when you are ready, but hey it's your life and not mine. Just don't get pressured into doing it. Do it when it feels right to you. You can never go back and undo it.

and PS: Never believe a guy when he says he knows the "pull out" method. Doesn't work, my friend still got pregnant with twins.
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Old Aug 12, 2012, 12:33 AM
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Do not ever have sex just because you think he will get bored. Do it when you know you are ready. I don't believe 15 is old enough to know when you are ready, but hey it's your life and not mine. Just don't get pressured into doing it. Do it when it feels right to you. You can never go back and undo it.

and PS: Never believe a guy when he says he knows the "pull out" method. Doesn't work, my friend still got pregnant with twins.
Hahaha its okay he knows better not to play those tricks on me
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Old Aug 13, 2012, 03:13 AM
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Well, I think 15 is very, very young, and I would advise you wait on the whole, but ultimately, it is your decision.

On that note, it IS your decision. Do not allow him to pressure you into things. You should be ready and completely willing before committing to this. I'd also tell you that if he threatens to leave you or shows signs of "boredom" due to lack of sex, especially at your age, he's not who you want to share that moment with, and I'd advise you kick him to the curb, honestly. If he cares, he'll wait until you're ready, and he'll respect your decision to wait until you are ready.

Also, Krisakira is right. The "pull out" method is about as effective as a wet match in a dark cave. A significant portion of sperm is released prior to orgasm in preejaculate. I actually read once that more is released then than in the actual "Big O" (in sheer sperm count), but I don't want to throw "Well I once read..." conjecture at you without at least a link. Please be safe.

I hope I was of some help, and I hope I didn't sound like a sex ed class lecture. I just don't want to see someone as young as you hurt or make a mistake you'll come to regret, is all. Just be safe, stay level headed, and don't be pressured into this, by anyone, ever. This is your decision.
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