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Old Sep 19, 2012, 09:35 AM
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Im a 25 yr old female. Masturbate using a vibrator. Recently became sexually active with my boyfriend. After I orgasm, sex becomes painful. Is this normal? Sex has always been very pleasurable even when I lost my virginity with an ex boyfriend 5 yrs ago but ive never been able to keep going after the first orgasm

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Old Sep 20, 2012, 02:54 AM
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Well...I confess my knowledge of the details of female anatomy (so to speak) is lacking, but my understanding is that increased sensitivity after orgasm is fairly normal. I think you'd be better served with an answer from someone with more knowlege there than I, but I think you're okay.

Where exactly is the discomfort, and how bad is it? I would think tenderness would be okay, but not outright pain.
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Old Sep 20, 2012, 03:18 AM
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I really enjoy having intercourse after an orgasm. Everything is much more heightened and the senses feel so much stronger.

Are you maybe confusing pain with being over-sesitive? If so, wait a few minutes after the orgasm before intercourse
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Old Sep 20, 2012, 09:06 AM
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I tend to orgasm quickly and before my partner. After I do and we are still having sex so that he can also orgasm, it gets really uncomfortable. my body tenses up and i dont get any pleasure. I can wait 15 min or so and then have another session and its pleasurable even though I usually cant orgasm again
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Old Sep 20, 2012, 11:24 AM
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Maybe consider taking him part way beforehand so that your orgasm times are closer together?
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Old Sep 22, 2012, 12:10 AM
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I get extremely sensitive if I orgasm and then sex continues. It usually can't continue
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