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Feel wrong last night and today I played with myself why I thought of my dad I got really funny and enjoyed it but feel. Dirty after its so wrong I didn't like the abuse but
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Hi Angel. I hope I can offer some help.
First, I am very proud of you and happy for you that you stood up to your father...that took more courage than I think I could ever muster. I know it's going to be a hard and potentially scary transition, but I think once you reach the other side of it, you'll look back on this and be glad you did. That being said, you do have to understand that this is a hard transition, and you've experienced a degree of trauma that few of us can begin to hope to comprehend. ![]() Try not to focus on this Angel. For now, work on getting through this transition and focusing on getting Angel well. Are you seeing a therapist in the wake of all this? It would be beyond excellent if you could. Take care, and know I'm still praying for you. ![]() My best, Harley
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The world suffers alot. Not because of the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of good people.- Napoleon Bonaparte |
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Don't feel bad
![]() It really does happen to others- trust me, I would know. Sometimes, when I think of the person(s) who abused me, I can't help but be aroused for some reason. I can understand the confusion and the feeling of being "dirty", or feeling disgusted. I can't tell you WHY it happens, but somewhere along the way, some people become "conditioned" per say; that is to say, when certain conditions or situations arise (a smell, or a memory, or anything really), something instinctual rises and causes stimulation. I get that way sometimes too, when I think of my father and my ex-boyfriend (if that is even the right title for him).
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And also, there is nothing wrong with wanting sex. It can be a purely physiological reaction sometimes, too.
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Thanku nice to know I'm not alone
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