[sukothefox]

i asked about this somewhere else, but i want to ask it in this forum about sexuality. is having a fetish for stuffed animals wrong? it doesnt interfere with my life, and recently i had an issue with my girlfriend about it because she was jealous of the stuffed animals. i dont depend on plush to get aroused, but they do arouse me.

[Pandoren]

I shouldn't think you are alone to be honest, and as for "wrong" I don't see why there should be a problem (only if it takes over your life, ruins multiple relationships, etc, which doesn't seem to be the thing here). The only "wrong" fetishes imo are ones that involve lack of consent and so on where there is actually a moral issue or where the fetish itself is a real problem.

Why was your girlfriend jealous? If she felt that you were paying more attention to the stuffed animals than to her, then I might see her point (unless she's getting it out of proportion). It does occur to me that with an understanding partner and a bit of communication, you probably could integrate stuffed toys into the bedroom in some ways that might be enjoyable for two people. Maybe not all the time though if that's not her thing. Perhaps you could think of a few sensual things to do to her with them and change her mind a little?

[sukothefox]

Originally Posted by Pandoren

I shouldn't think you are alone to be honest, and as for "wrong" I don't see why there should be a problem (only if it takes over your life, ruins multiple relationships, etc, which doesn't seem to be the thing here). The only "wrong" fetishes imo are ones that involve lack of consent and so on where there is actually a moral issue or where the fetish itself is a real problem.

Why was your girlfriend jealous? If she felt that you were paying more attention to the stuffed animals than to her, then I might see her point (unless she's getting it out of proportion). It does occur to me that with an understanding partner and a bit of communication, you probably could integrate stuffed toys into the bedroom in some ways that might be enjoyable for two people. Maybe not all the time though if that's not her thing. Perhaps you could think of a few sensual things to do to her with them and change her mind a little?

she was thinking i preferred them over her, when i obviously prefer her over them. she herself has told me she is a very jealous person, but i am helping her by telling her how beautiful and gorgeous she is... she pinches her pimples a lot, and well, you know what i mean. i was just asking if it was wrong, and well i just wanted more confirmation... i convinced her and she told me she accepted me fapping to them, but that she wasnt wearing any fursuit. well she told me she could get paws and ears and tail, but thats it. thanks for answering man

[LiteraryLark]

Plush fetishes are like any other fetish...not necessarily something that interferes with life--though in extreme cases it can--but is an object or situation that one becomes aroused by. For me, I like Nazi uniforms, and the power and fear it comes with. It is likely that you enjoy the softness of the plushies, the way they feel, or perhaps it's the cutesy animal shape you admire. Whatever the case, let your gf know that they can never replace her.

Perhaps wrap her up in a soft fuzzy blanket when you cuddle. There are some rave attire she may be open to wear:



I wouldn't worry about your fetish unless it causes your gf too much grief.

[sukothefox]

Originally Posted by DrSkipper

Plush fetishes are like any other fetish...not necessarily something that interferes with life--though in extreme cases it can--but is an object or situation that one becomes aroused by. For me, I like Nazi uniforms, and the power and fear it comes with. It is likely that you enjoy the softness of the plushies, the way they feel, or perhaps it's the cutesy animal shape you admire. Whatever the case, let your gf know that they can never replace her.

Perhaps wrap her up in a soft fuzzy blanket when you cuddle. There are some rave attire she may be open to wear:



I wouldn't worry about your fetish unless it causes your gf too much grief.

Where would it be considered an extreme case? Like I said, she accepted it because they are just inanimate objects, and she knows that I prefer her. I just need to know how it looks when taken to the extreme
thanks.

[Harley47]

Well, not to impose on Doc's definition (which by the way, howdy Doc. Been awhile ), but I'd define "extreme" as something that interferes with daily functions. Let's say for example that you neglected to do some duty (be it around the house, to her, professionally, w/e) because you were engaging in your fetish. THAT'S when it becomes a problem...or when/if you hit the point that arousal and the fetish are synonymous, meaning that you REQUIRE a specific sort of stimuli to become aroused.

To give an extreme example of the extreme, I saw a TV show of a young lady who was a furry who refused to leave the house without her full fursuit. Regardless of weather, function, occasion...regardless, had to be dressed up as...I believe it was a rabbit? Perhaps a fox...been awhile. Anyway, that's an extreme case of an extremity.

I'd say you're fine.

[Pandoren]

At the risk of being TMI, I wasn't necessarily thinking about her dressing up in them, I was thinking more along a sensation point of view, like tickling her with them