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Default Nov 23, 2012 at 06:46 PM
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For me - a low, deep, rich voice, with proper English (with absolutely no grammatical errors) and perfect enunciation. For me, the qualities of the voice and speech are far more important than the looks.
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Default Nov 23, 2012 at 08:15 PM
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confident, good listener, non judgemental, caring, kind, since of humor, sincere,

As for looks, the eyes are the windows to the soul. Warm eyes, beautyful eyes, caring eyes, eyes you can read.

Height, weight, hair color, facial hair, no facial hair, balding, what ever. Looks fade qualities do not.
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Default Nov 23, 2012 at 09:32 PM
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Someone who is honest, compassionate, kind, open, enjoys affection, and is willing to communicate.
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Default Nov 24, 2012 at 02:33 AM
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The sexiest attribute?

Money, lots of it, and very generous to me. (Yeah, I like all that other stuff--good looks, smarts, caring, gentle, sexually skilled, likes the same things I do, accepts me as I am, loves animals--but I hate struggling financially, and while I'm trying to better myself with college so I can make money of my own, I like the idea of a guy who is financially secure and would keep me that way, too.)

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Default Nov 24, 2012 at 08:47 AM
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Yes someone who loves animals, it would be nice if he were a horse lover, a guy who likes yard sales, getting out side the box, a spur of the moment type of attitude.

Money helps but it really doesn't buy happiness. We, my H and I, have been on both sides of the fence. You could be dirt poor and as long as you have each other (and the neccities) you REALLY do have everything. Family, friends, love, respect, it all you really need. I know money doesn't buy happyness but it sure does help right. I do understand really. I'm a stay at home mom w/ no money and it really really helps. But all that money it takes someone to go out and get it. That is what makes it not so great. Love or money it's so hard to have both.
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Default Nov 24, 2012 at 02:14 PM
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Right... it turns me off when men dislike cats... you are right! Another attribute I was not aware of, thank you!
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Default Nov 26, 2012 at 11:14 AM
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The sexiest attribute?

Money, lots of it, and very generous to me. (Yeah, I like all that other stuff--good looks, smarts, caring, gentle, sexually skilled, likes the same things I do, accepts me as I am, loves animals--but I hate struggling financially, and while I'm trying to better myself with college so I can make money of my own, I like the idea of a guy who is financially secure and would keep me that way, too.)
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Default Nov 27, 2012 at 03:54 AM
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You quoted me, bighands. Is "-- SMH --" supposed to mean something? Sorry, I'm confused.

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Default Nov 27, 2012 at 04:05 AM
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Sexiest attribute of personality would be a toss up between sense of humor and intelligence.

Sexiest physical attribute would be hair and eyes. I'm a sucker for long dark hair and pretty eyes.
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Default Nov 27, 2012 at 09:11 AM
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Long hair gets to me to. It can be Axel Rose long and georgious or Willie Nelson (for anyone who doesn't know him, more of a biker look) shaggy and in a ponytail long.

I'm not sure what SMH is either. Explain.
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Default Nov 27, 2012 at 09:15 AM
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an accent and strong arms...oh and maybe the butt...and maybe the chest....oh and the face...gotta be cute...LOL

Oh and I don't like the clean cut look either. I was reading the above post so I had to add this. I don't like suits and that conservative look. I like my guy a little wild!

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Default Nov 28, 2012 at 03:03 AM
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Ah. Well, I'm being honest and it comes from experience. I did not say I would want a rich, generous man who didn't treat me well or have things in common with me. But I do know that I'm much happier when I have money for fun.

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That would have to be the cuticle on their left index-finger, definitely.

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Default Dec 05, 2012 at 09:07 PM
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Sexy thing; sense of humour and a cheeky smile If I find a man funny i'm putty in his hands.

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Default Dec 05, 2012 at 10:20 PM
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Sense of humor and intelligence - tied for 1st place.
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Default Dec 10, 2012 at 07:13 PM
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I don't like suits and that conservative look. I like my guy a little wild![/COLOR]

Me neither but I will try to retrain because this attitude/preference has cost me a lot.
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confidence

physically I like muscular shoulders and upper body

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physically I like muscular shoulders and upper body
I like confidence, too, especially I like to hear a confident voice.
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Default Dec 10, 2012 at 08:36 PM
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Physically--His mouth and his hands. You can have a great body and personality, but sloppy dog kisses are gross. I like soft but firm lips. And hands can get me so distracted because I can't stop thinking about feeling and touching them. Hands can do so many things and have gone so many places. I like warm, masculine hands.

Personality--Sense of humor, definitely. Any age can make me swoon as long as they have a great sense of humor.
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