[hamster-bamster]

For me - a low, deep, rich voice, with proper English (with absolutely no grammatical errors) and perfect enunciation. For me, the qualities of the voice and speech are far more important than the looks.

[Big Mama]

confident, good listener, non judgemental, caring, kind, since of humor, sincere,

As for looks, the eyes are the windows to the soul. Warm eyes, beautyful eyes, caring eyes, eyes you can read.

Height, weight, hair color, facial hair, no facial hair, balding, what ever. Looks fade qualities do not.

[Butterflies Are Free]

Someone who is honest, compassionate, kind, open, enjoys affection, and is willing to communicate.

[Maven]

The sexiest attribute?

Money, lots of it, and very generous to me. (Yeah, I like all that other stuff--good looks, smarts, caring, gentle, sexually skilled, likes the same things I do, accepts me as I am, loves animals--but I hate struggling financially, and while I'm trying to better myself with college so I can make money of my own, I like the idea of a guy who is financially secure and would keep me that way, too.)

[Big Mama]

Yes someone who loves animals, it would be nice if he were a horse lover, a guy who likes yard sales, getting out side the box, a spur of the moment type of attitude.

Money helps but it really doesn't buy happiness. We, my H and I, have been on both sides of the fence. You could be dirt poor and as long as you have each other (and the neccities) you REALLY do have everything. Family, friends, love, respect, it all you really need. I know money doesn't buy happyness but it sure does help right. I do understand really. I'm a stay at home mom w/ no money and it really really helps. But all that money it takes someone to go out and get it. That is what makes it not so great. Love or money it's so hard to have both.

[hamster-bamster]

Right... it turns me off when men dislike cats... you are right! Another attribute I was not aware of, thank you!

[bighands]

Originally Posted by Maven

The sexiest attribute?

Money, lots of it, and very generous to me. (Yeah, I like all that other stuff--good looks, smarts, caring, gentle, sexually skilled, likes the same things I do, accepts me as I am, loves animals--but I hate struggling financially, and while I'm trying to better myself with college so I can make money of my own, I like the idea of a guy who is financially secure and would keep me that way, too.)

-- SMH --.

[Maven]

You quoted me, bighands. Is "-- SMH --" supposed to mean something? Sorry, I'm confused.

[Raindropvampire]

Sexiest attribute of personality would be a toss up between sense of humor and intelligence.

Sexiest physical attribute would be hair and eyes. I'm a sucker for long dark hair and pretty eyes.

[Big Mama]

Long hair gets to me to. It can be Axel Rose long and georgious or Willie Nelson (for anyone who doesn't know him, more of a biker look) shaggy and in a ponytail long.

I'm not sure what SMH is either. Explain.

[missbelle]

an accent and strong arms...oh and maybe the butt...and maybe the chest....oh and the face...gotta be cute...LOL

Oh and I don't like the clean cut look either. I was reading the above post so I had to add this. I don't like suits and that conservative look. I like my guy a little wild!

[bighands]

http://www.internetslang.com/SMH-meaning-definition.asp

[Maven]

Ah. Well, I'm being honest and it comes from experience. I did not say I would want a rich, generous man who didn't treat me well or have things in common with me. But I do know that I'm much happier when I have money for fun.

That would have to be the cuticle on their left index-finger, definitely.

-Fleeing Bellocq, Mapping Masculinity in the Mission District

[BDPpartner]

Sexy thing; sense of humour and a cheeky smile If I find a man funny i'm putty in his hands.

[0w6c379]

Sense of humor and intelligence - tied for 1st place.

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by missbelle

I don't like suits and that conservative look. I like my guy a little wild![/COLOR]

Me neither but I will try to retrain because this attitude/preference has cost me a lot.

[Yoda]

confidence

physically I like muscular shoulders and upper body

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by Yoda

confidence

physically I like muscular shoulders and upper body

I like confidence, too, especially I like to hear a confident voice.

[LiteraryLark]

Physically--His mouth and his hands. You can have a great body and personality, but sloppy dog kisses are gross. I like soft but firm lips. And hands can get me so distracted because I can't stop thinking about feeling and touching them. Hands can do so many things and have gone so many places. I like warm, masculine hands.

Personality--Sense of humor, definitely. Any age can make me swoon as long as they have a great sense of humor.

[RomanSunburn]

I melt whenever I see my husband's wedding ring... I know it's silly, but I find it so sexy... Especially if he's dressed up, wearing a skinny tie, and he's across the room... (It's a big, honkin', shiny ring)...

Oh, newlyweds...

[Maven]

Physically, I like muscles, but not like steroidal, over-the-top bodybuilder muscles. Love a strong chest and well-muscled arms. Love a tall guy. I love playful eyes. I like my guys strong, and I think I prefer a guy with hair. I can go for a guy who has no body hair, but if I were to pick of the two, I like the feel of "fur" on my guy.

I'm not really into conservative suits, either. I prefer my guy more casual. He needs to be confident, but not arrogant. And, non-physical, I agree, I need a guy with a strong sense of humor. It's cliche, but true. I can't imagine why anyone would want to be with someone who doesn't make them laugh.

[Big Mama]

Romansunburn thinking about my H was not a thought of mine. I was thinking of attractions and desires. How sweet newlyweds indeed. Thinking about my H and what qualities get to me I'd say wild chest hair just enough to peek one's interest spilling out of the top of his shirt because he has one more button then usual undone. I also love a goody trail. You know the little line of hair leading below the belt, to the goodies.

[hamster-bamster]

Originally Posted by Big Mama

I also love a goody trail. You know the little line of hair leading below the belt, to the goodies.

Yes, I know what you mean, I have seen it once on a friend and it was very attractive, despite the fact that he was half-grey. So, yes, definitely, a good catch, .

[LadyShadow]

The goatee or stubble from the beginnings of a beard. Facial hair on a man just does it for me. It has always been my weakness. I ask my boyfriend not to shave for at least a week at a time, he does it. but thinks I'm a weirdo. LOL.