What is the sexiest attribute in a female for you?

Hampster, I think I know enough from your posts to surmise that you know who that is and that you are partial to Europeans.

Hampster, I think I know enough from your posts to surmise that you know who that is and that you are partial to Europeans.

Her vs this one?

This is easy, I find intelligent women to be very sexy, so it would be a woman's brain, but then somehow I ended up marrying a woman who isn't that bright.

sophistication.

I like a classy, intelligent woman, to the point where her looks almost don't matter.

Intellect. I love the Type A personality nerd.

Umm. This is what I get for skim reading. I thought it asked what is the sexist attribute of a MALE. Ackward

Also like someone who is dominant in a gentle sort of way.

I remember some celebrity answer this with:
"A great personality and big tits."

And I thought:
"This man is a genius."

Thanks! I thought it would be overwhelmingly butt and boob oriented responses, refreshing to see that attribute is appreciated at least equally with physical qualities. Carry on.

So, while cookbook and a sexy mouth are my number ones on the whole side, I'd probably match that with the power of the more graphic quality of puffy nipples. That particular quality is incredibly sexy.

If we are going to make a generalization, from my own experience I think men are better in the kitchen than women. Blame my mother. So can you think of something other than body parts that is more uniquely feminine?

Just purely looking at the gender of celebrity chefs, you are right.

Maybe this will sound weird or biased but I have to chime in with an unaltered body. By which I mean that I'm seriously turned off by cosmetic surgery, especially breast implants.

I think it's a shame that some women feel that they have to literally reshape their bodies to fit a stupid ideal held by the majority of men -- "big tits". But then, I'm a fan of smaller breasts.

For me its all about the lips and the hips....well and the eyes.
I want to get lost in her kiss. I love to see a woman sway when she walks. And if I cannot gaze into her eyes, I don't care how awesome her boobs are!
So lets say eyes 1, lips 2, hips 3.
And for the record, my ex's eyes are hazel/green.

Personally, I am uncomfortable describing a woman as "sexy," because I feel it has a shallow and derogatory meaning, similar to how the words "hot" and "chick" are used, but that's my opinion.

It'll sound cliche but what I find most attractive in a female is how kind she is and how she treats me, i.e., if she empathetic, caring, respectful, and if she cares what I have to say.

I could care less about what she looks like. But I'll be on cloud nine if a woman is willing to listen to my rants about the world and respect my interests! . I remember when I was last in a relationship we went on a bug hunt! I'd teach her about the different arachnids and insects we found outside .

As someone that is endlessly alone, I am forced to bottle what is on my mind and how I feel inside of me, and I can feel like a dam about to burst. Indeed, I have a hard time feeling good about something if I am unable to share it with someone I trust; it becomes lost when I am forced to bottle it inside of me with everything else.

All I would like is someone that I can express myself too honesty, without fear, and that cares about what I have to say. If a woman can do that she's an A+ to me no matter what she looks like.

Probably a longer answer than I intended…

I consistently fall for women who are intelligent (as demonstrated by the kind of conversations we share), and compassionate. Achievement and a type A personality are also attractive. I am also attracted to women who possess both masculine and feminine traits.

Physical appearance doesn't matter much. In general, I am attracted to slimmer women with average-sized breasts. Red hair is also really hot. But really, I am more attracted to minds than I am to bodies.

I am sure had I been lesbian or bisexual I would have been attracted by redheads, too.

Actually no, I do not know, but I might be partial to Europeans. Who is she?

Horrible!

Nobody has mentioned hair - hair in general, not necessarily red.

For me, the best hair can do is to avoid detracting from the overall look. If I had my way I'd go bald. So I don't tend to look at hair as part of the overall image.

The mind is the most powerful organ in the body. In addition, being a bit butch puts an picante sheen to the mind.

Having nice teeth. I like brown or red hair best.