Masturbating in your partner's arms

I have made some progress. No, I have not taught the guy how to give me manual orgasms. I have not even started! And I have no motivation. I just want him to just know, instinctively, as ex husbands did, especially ex H 2. Which is very unfair to him, to say the least. But at any rate, I was able to reach orgasm myself, while he held me firmly in his arms. Not from the first attempt - from the third attempt. But still, I was able to do it. A good orgasm. So I feel a little better now.

And the night before, I could not do it, neither from his attempts nor from mine, and he told me "It is OK, it is not an exam for which you must get an A." Which, I thought, was a very appropriate analogy.

So I think I will take it very-very easy now to decrease the level of anxiety, do not try to come from his hands at all, and just focus on masturbating while in his arms to reach some steady state of consistent orgasms in that position. Something is better than nothing. In fact, who cares how these orgasms are reached? Whatever works...

Does anyone do it on a regular basis - masturbating inside partner sex? If so, how - with the partner watching or holding you firmly?

I can get off whenever and however I want to, pretty much. Even laying in my boyfriend's arms, cuddling can get me off. No contact to anything--it just happens...

I can get off whenever and however I want to, pretty much. Even laying in my boyfriend's arms, cuddling can get me off. No contact to anything--it just happens...

Women can have a series of orgasms in quick succession, unlike men, if that is what the last post mentioned.

Why arnt you the ladies using vibrators, You don't need a man, you don't have to use penetration you no were your clitoris is just buzz round it. WOMEN use them in any way to orgasm, us men will soon not be needed at all only to buy the drinks.

Well we need you to kill the really big bugs in the bathroom, too....

Women can have a series of orgasms in quick succession, unlike men, if that is what the last post mentioned.

Women can have a series of orgasms in quick succession, unlike men, if that is what the last post mentioned.

There were a couple of years when I (a man) could come several times before ejaculating.

Not this year, though.

I find that fascinating...I know that it can happen, but I wonder what that experience is like.

ETA...not asking you of course...unless you care to share. Just simply wondering.

There were a couple of years when I (a man) could come several times before ejaculating.

Not this year, though.

whooooooaaaaa I cant get my head round that come means ejaculate in men, so explain how that works without the sperm. We can get a sensation that his high but its not orgasm , ORGASM means ejaculate , you can do the sex thing that STING and his wife claim to do but that's not about orgasm .so no I cannot believe you come which means sperm , without the white mice.

There were a couple of years when I (a man) could come several times before ejaculating.

Not this year, though.

Hmmm ... that's wild, thanks to my meds I can actually ejaculate without having an orgasm. It's a rather weird and frustrating experience.

It is possible for men to have multiple orgasms. It depends on how much prolactin builds up in your system. Most men have a TON of prolactin build up in their system after orgasm, stopping them from having multiples, but if you're lucky, you can have more than one. There is a drug out there that can be abused to induce multiple orgasms in men ... and that's all I got ta say 'bout that.

"white mice"...

Thanks for the smile today...