i psted this in a couple of places...but he keeps gradding my man boobs!

okay im over weight and have man breasts and at school my breasts get grabbed all the time..no big deal doesn't bother me because they stop when I tell them to..but their this one skinny male who does it and when I tell him to stop he doesn't...when I walk into the room he says "how big are they?" refereeing to my breasts at first it didn't bother me its been going on since school has started this year and lately its been bugging the piss outta me...he does not know when to stop..he does it I say okay enough he keeps doing it I say okay back off me...he keeps going so I walk away before I lose my temper and as I walk away he says to me"ya walk away pu**y" so I turn around because he clearly wants to start something and as he is basically running away from me he says "do something b**ch" im getting so fed up with this kid...I cant go to the school about it because last year I was bullied and went to the school and they did nothing...this kid even does it infront of the teacher and its starting to get me so angry im gonna end up hurting the kid...I have it all planned out break his hands so he cant grab me and punch him in the face and break his jaw so he cant call me those mans....theirs a saying where I grew up "if you keep poking the bear your gonna get mauled" and trust me he keeps poking this bear and trust me he is gonna get mualed

Bullying is a VERY big deal these days. Here are some resources:

http://www.bullypolice.org/
http://www.stopbullying.gov/get-help-now/index.html

You did a great job, keeping calm. Be the better person.

I can't believe you had a teacher do nothing. Sorry you had to go thru that. That was way wrong and could very likely get him/her fired. Tell your teacher again and if nothing is done go over her head to school officials.Use get-help-now above. there's lots of good stuff.

Good luck!

Get a friend if you have one, to videotape what this guy is doing to you, if that's possible, or tape it yourself. Then call the cops. Forget the school. Schools never listen until it's too late. Get evidence of this action and call the cops and file harrassment charges. Or, if the teacher has witnessed it, just call the cops and have the teacher back up what you are saying. I wish you the best of luck in getting this problem taken care of. What that guy is doing to you is harrassing you and you shouldn't have to put up with that.

@bighands its getting to the point where I hate the school...I hate going...im stuck with him for 3 and a half hours and those 3 and a half hours he is bugging the piss outta me....ive told him plenty of times to stop but he never listens I shove him away from me and he come back like an hour later....

@cynicalreality he is gonna play the race card(he is black and I am white) like I am past my breaking point with this kid...he has no respect for the teacher or his other class mates and he needs to be taught a lesson and if his parents wont im gonna....he needs to learn to learn to keep his hands to himself and when someone says stop you stop

Firefighter, think about it, he will play the race card ESPECIALLY if you take matters into your own physical hands to teach him a lesson. If you teach him the lesson and fight him, YOU are going to get into major trouble and he will make it look like you are the bad guy. Things will most likely go much smoother if you gather evidence, and call the police.

that is true...but all my friends see him doing it too

Ok, then please get a friend to secretly video record it. Bring the recording to the police so that you have the evidence, then file charges against the bully. You will thank yourself for doing this, trust me. I just want to help you get the problem solved.

I completely understand...but being labeled as a "rat" might bring on some more bullying ya know?

Well, I think that if you do call the cops and the guy gets in trouble, that other people will be more likely to leave you alone so that you don't call the cops on them too. You have a right to stand up for yourself.

that is also true

I am not surprised the school did not react. I knew parents who had to remove their children from a PRIVATE school that preached all sorts of ethical values and had posters about no bullying but when it came to taking real action, the school did nothing and tried hard to silence the parents.

I bet if I lay my hands on this kid im gonna get hit with bulling on top of fighting. but I truthfully don't care at this point...im outta school in 5 months and im passing so I have room to screw around and mess up and lately I have been so irritated at life in general so he is getting me at a real bad time plus I have the kids on the bus saying no girl will ever love me...when I get home im just gonna f**k a blow up boll that I don't even own and my bro's girlfriend has been giving me dirty looks and making snob remarks towards me so its just a bunch of stuff....I feel bad for this kid because he is gonna be the one I lose it on

Taking your frustration out on another individual is not the answer.

You are 18 . So legally you are an adult. That carries a whole different set of issues. Assault, battery, the charges could go on and on. 5 more months of school. do you guys have officers in the school. Talk to the guidence department, school psychologist, other teachers.

I posted on another forum to your issue. That is my suggestion. I now have to home school my son because of the bullying issue he got him self to close to. He took things into his own hands and didn't go threw the proper channels. Now his whole life as a teenager will be missed up.

Just be careful.

I truly hate fighting..i hate losing my temper I hate getting angry...when I get angry I tend to black out...I lose control and I hate it...ill talk to him about it and if things don't stop ill take actions

I used to exercise in those tight bras that keep everrything in place. I am not exercizing these days and I do not remember where I store the bras. ENELL? Maybe. On their website, I read that they carry products that effectively conceal man boobs.

sure wearing a man bra will help keep things in place and stop my girls from sagging but I think that would bring more bullying apon me since I have to change for gym and that involves taking my shirt off

ok, but later when you go to college lectures then?

im not going to college...never planned on it...truthfully I don't even know what I want to be outside of high school

Yeah, I recommend the same thing. Get it on videotape and take it to the police. Don't worry about being a "rat." I don't know where that nonsense came from, that we shouldn't "snitch" or "rat" someone out who's doing wrong. Whistleblowers in companies are often treated like crap because they did the right thing and called out someone doing something wrong. That's the kind of person who should be considered a hero.