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Old Feb 16, 2013, 06:02 PM
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I'm wondering if I should be less affectionate, help out with buying panty liners, or just end the relationship to cut down on her laundry load?
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Old Feb 18, 2013, 08:46 AM
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I would give it time. My wife was like that when we first meet. It got better after a 5 or 6 months. I dont think you should break up with her over it.
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Old Feb 18, 2013, 09:50 AM
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End the r/s, find someone who doesn't wear panties (cough, cough), and QUIT BRAGGING!!!
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Old Feb 18, 2013, 02:47 PM
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End the r/s, find someone who doesn't wear panties (cough, cough), and QUIT BRAGGING!!!
LOL Hankster... not sure which smilie to use so I'll use both:
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Old Feb 18, 2013, 07:00 PM
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Frankly I think you should both be happy. You because she is passionate and responsive and her because she is well lubricated, Having sex when you are dry is no picnic
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Old Feb 18, 2013, 07:44 PM
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I agree. For someone who has tried to have sex before she is ready, it's not a pleasant feeling.
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Old Feb 18, 2013, 08:15 PM
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I apologize for my prior post in respect that this is the part of psych central where we can post about sexual issues I just don't get why ud even have an issue with that. Not
Like it makes sex difficult, right...
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Old Feb 18, 2013, 10:53 PM
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Try to be less sexy.
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 10:41 AM
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well if nothing else that is confirmation you are doing something right. Weather it be clothes, smiles, or moves.

Count it as blessing. panty liners and doing laundry is a small price to pay for that kind of happiness.
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 12:08 PM
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I don't see a prior post and an apology isn't necessary, though I'm surprised you would see my post as unusual or offensive in a forum where some very strange issues have come up. It isn't about sex per se... not sexual activity anyway. It's more of a practical issue, not a complaint about the sexual aspect. It's almost always convenient to be loving and affectionate... it isn't always so convenient to have sex. Men get wet too. It can be awkward and uncomfortable if it doesn't happen in a time and place where it leads to sex. I'm looking at this from her perspective as well as mine.
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I apologize for my prior post in respect that this is the part of psych central where we can post about sexual issues I just don't get why ud even have an issue with that. Not
Like it makes sex difficult, right...
IT I wish we could control whether we are considered sexy or not sexy. I think it would be useful to be sexy at will. Wish I could be
And like beauty, sexy is in the eye of the beholder, no?
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Old Feb 20, 2013, 10:27 PM
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I'm wondering if I should be less affectionate, help out with buying panty liners, or just end the relationship to cut down on her laundry load?


All I'm going to say is I know EXACLY what you're talking about... Don't dump her. Just wait. It will get better. Just enjoy it.... She really likes you

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Old Feb 20, 2013, 10:31 PM
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"I'm looking at this from her perspective as well as mine."


It might me awkward for men. But not as much for women.
How do you know it makes her uncomfortable?
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Old Feb 20, 2013, 11:58 PM
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I'm wondering if I should be less affectionate, help out with buying panty liners, or just end the relationship to cut down on her laundry load?
why don't you just offer to do her laundry?
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Old Feb 21, 2013, 10:53 AM
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How much are talking about anyway? Is it moist panties or is it a puddle on the couch? Regaurdless I would take at as a compliment that she is into you. The guy equivilent is more awkward imo. There isnt a lot you can do with unwanted erections.
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 11:36 AM
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I'm wondering if I should be less affectionate, help out with buying panty liners, or just end the relationship to cut down on her laundry load?
Funny George! Enjoy!
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Old Feb 24, 2013, 05:58 PM
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Lol Adam brings up a solid point...it'd probably be worse the other way around.

Relax! rofl I wish I had this problem! It sounds like she just REALLY "likes" you, so to speak. Take some pride in that to her you're apparently radiating more sexy than plutonium radiates protons and enjoy your relationship!

Offering to do her laundry might help though.
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Old Feb 25, 2013, 01:08 AM
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I'm wondering if I should be less affectionate, help out with buying panty liners, or just end the relationship to cut down on her laundry load?
Enjoy it cause its the best thing a guy can hope for
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Old Feb 27, 2013, 06:14 AM
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Pegasus apparently was thinking what I was, that this was a joke, and not a serious question he was asking for advice! Wish I was that girl, ready and willing so easily!
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Old Feb 27, 2013, 03:58 PM
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Pegasus apparently was thinking what I was, that this was a joke, and not a serious question he was asking for advice! Wish I was that girl, ready and willing so easily!
No... not a joke but not that serious. And there is some humor in the situation
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