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I'm wondering if I should be less affectionate, help out with buying panty liners, or just end the relationship to cut down on her laundry load?
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![]() AngelWolf3, carrie_ann
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I would give it time. My wife was like that when we first meet. It got better after a 5 or 6 months. I dont think you should break up with her over it.
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End the r/s, find someone who doesn't wear panties (cough, cough), and QUIT BRAGGING!!!
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Frankly I think you should both be happy. You because she is passionate and responsive and her because she is well lubricated, Having sex when you are dry is no picnic
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I agree. For someone who has tried to have sex before she is ready, it's not a pleasant feeling.
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I apologize for my prior post in respect that this is the part of psych central where we can post about sexual issues I just don't get why ud even have an issue with that. Not
Like it makes sex difficult, right...
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well if nothing else that is confirmation you are doing something right. Weather it be clothes, smiles, or moves.
Count it as blessing. panty liners and doing laundry is a small price to pay for that kind of happiness. |
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I don't see a prior post and an apology isn't necessary, though I'm surprised you would see my post as unusual or offensive in a forum where some very strange issues have come up. It isn't about sex per se... not sexual activity anyway. It's more of a practical issue, not a complaint about the sexual aspect. It's almost always convenient to be loving and affectionate... it isn't always so convenient to have sex. Men get wet too. It can be awkward and uncomfortable if it doesn't happen in a time and place where it leads to sex. I'm looking at this from her perspective as well as mine.
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All I'm going to say is I know EXACLY what you're talking about... Don't dump her. Just wait. It will get better. Just enjoy it.... She really likes you Good luck |
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"I'm looking at this from her perspective as well as mine."
It might me awkward for men. But not as much for women. How do you know it makes her uncomfortable? |
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why don't you just offer to do her laundry?
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How much are talking about anyway? Is it moist panties or is it a puddle on the couch? Regaurdless I would take at as a compliment that she is into you. The guy equivilent is more awkward imo. There isnt a lot you can do with unwanted erections.
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Lol Adam brings up a solid point...it'd probably be worse the other way around.
![]() Relax! rofl I wish I had this problem! ![]() Offering to do her laundry might help though. ![]()
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Pegasus apparently was thinking what I was, that this was a joke, and not a serious question he was asking for advice! Wish I was that girl, ready and willing so easily!
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