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Feb 16, 2013 at 06:02 PM
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I'm wondering if I should be less affectionate, help out with buying panty liners, or just end the relationship to cut down on her laundry load?
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Feb 18, 2013 at 08:46 AM
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I would give it time. My wife was like that when we first meet. It got better after a 5 or 6 months. I dont think you should break up with her over it.
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Feb 18, 2013 at 09:50 AM
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End the r/s, find someone who doesn't wear panties (cough, cough), and QUIT BRAGGING!!!
 
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Feb 18, 2013 at 02:47 PM
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Feb 18, 2013 at 07:00 PM
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Frankly I think you should both be happy. You because she is passionate and responsive and her because she is well lubricated, Having sex when you are dry is no picnic
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Feb 18, 2013 at 07:44 PM
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I agree. For someone who has tried to have sex before she is ready, it's not a pleasant feeling.
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Feb 18, 2013 at 08:15 PM
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I apologize for my prior post in respect that this is the part of psych central where we can post about sexual issues I just don't get why ud even have an issue with that. Not
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Feb 18, 2013 at 10:53 PM
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Try to be less sexy.
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Feb 19, 2013 at 10:41 AM
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well if nothing else that is confirmation you are doing something right. Weather it be clothes, smiles, or moves.
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Feb 19, 2013 at 12:08 PM
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I don't see a prior post and an apology isn't necessary, though I'm surprised you would see my post as unusual or offensive in a forum where some very strange issues have come up. It isn't about sex per se... not sexual activity anyway. It's more of a practical issue, not a complaint about the sexual aspect. It's almost always convenient to be loving and affectionate... it isn't always so convenient to have sex. Men get wet too. It can be awkward and uncomfortable if it doesn't happen in a time and place where it leads to sex. I'm looking at this from her perspective as well as mine.
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Feb 20, 2013 at 10:27 PM
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Feb 20, 2013 at 10:31 PM
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"I'm looking at this from her perspective as well as mine."
It might me awkward for men. But not as much for women. How do you know it makes her uncomfortable? |
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Feb 20, 2013 at 11:58 PM
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Feb 21, 2013 at 10:53 AM
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How much are talking about anyway? Is it moist panties or is it a puddle on the couch? Regaurdless I would take at as a compliment that she is into you. The guy equivilent is more awkward imo. There isnt a lot you can do with unwanted erections.
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Feb 24, 2013 at 05:58 PM
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Lol Adam brings up a solid point...it'd probably be worse the other way around.
Relax! rofl I wish I had this problem! It sounds like she just REALLY "likes" you, so to speak. Take some pride in that to her you're apparently radiating more sexy than plutonium radiates protons and enjoy your relationship!Offering to do her laundry might help though. 
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Feb 27, 2013 at 06:14 AM
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Pegasus apparently was thinking what I was, that this was a joke, and not a serious question he was asking for advice! Wish I was that girl, ready and willing so easily!
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