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Old Jul 24, 2013, 02:34 AM
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It is but being a virgin and then not and then being a virgin again is pretty rare [/COLOR]
true... but, if there are BORN AGAIN people, what prevents one from being a virgin several times?

IT: you get to decide. If you decided that the sex worker incident did not count, then, it did not count.

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Old Jul 24, 2013, 02:46 AM
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IT - if you have a family doctor he won't have to examine you when the penis is erect. Let me ask you a couple questions:
How long has this been happening?
Any new medications?
Have you ever injured your penis?
When its erect, does it have a curve?
Does it hurt when erect?
It has been happening for about a year, ever since I stopped a certain medication, there's no pain, there's just lack of stimulation really.
There are also no performance issues.
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Old Jul 24, 2013, 03:18 AM
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white having not seen the worsening of this condition in a whole year probably means that it is stable, you would still be better off if you can see a doctor. Maintaining an erection for a doctor is jokes fodder - in reality you will likely talk about your issues instead.
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Old Jul 24, 2013, 12:02 PM
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It has been happening for about a year, ever since I stopped a certain medication, there's no pain, there's just lack of stimulation really.
There are also no performance issues.
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there's just lack of stimulation really.
I want to note I did take this problem seriously and there are medical reasons for this problem. Can you explain the above quote more? Isn't lack of stimulation a "performance issue"? Does it take too long to finish and climax? I'm not bashing porn but sometimes it can cause desensitization - which means it takes longer and sometimes this can end up hurting both partners. I understand many men are embarrassed speaking about this with doctors but they're used to this.
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Old Jul 25, 2013, 04:30 AM
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I want to note I did take this problem seriously and there are medical reasons for this problem. Can you explain the above quote more? Isn't lack of stimulation a "performance issue"? Does it take too long to finish and climax?
It's not a performance issue in terms of my ability to please my partner.

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I'm not bashing porn but sometimes it can cause desensitization
I do watch a bit of porn, usually the femdom stuff, but my partner wasn't dominant in that way so I don't think it desensitized me then or now . . . it seems to be a completely physical issue imo, although I think my depression levels affect it.
Thanks for this!
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Old Jul 25, 2013, 02:05 PM
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Have you tried a ribbed or textured condom to add an element of friction; it would rub one both ways, your partner and back into your penis. I would even though about putting such a condom on inside out. . .
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Old Jul 25, 2013, 06:09 PM
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it seems to be a completely physical issue imo, although I think my depression levels affect it.
In that case your p-doc (and not just a urologist or a GP) should know about it.
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