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Hey, guys and girls. I'm a new member here but I love hanging out on these boards because everyone seems so open and honest.
So I thought I'd just throw a quick question out there, a straw-poll if you will. The question is: How often do you masturbate? Now for me it's between once a day and once every two days. I don't have a partner and thus have no current access to regular sex. How about you? How often and maybe a little bit about your circumstances too if that's OK, for context. For example you may masturbate only once a month but you have regular sex so you don't need to do it any more often. For context it would be interesting to know this. I'd like to see if I'm above or below average for these boards. ![]() I should mention that I am a 27 y/o male Oh and I'd love responses from both guys and girls. Last edited by Zarathustra58; May 26, 2013 at 04:04 PM.. Reason: Add more detail |
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I'm a 20 y/o female and my masturbating "schedule" has changed since I first started masturbating (when I was 11). In middle school, I masturbated around 5 times a day more or less. High school it was about 1-3 times a day and when I turned 18 I started playing with toys. I tried a few vibrators and a butt plug, but honestly, I enjoy just using a pillow and a blanket that I stash in my closet. Now I don't masturbate as much--only when I'm very bored--but I am constantly thinking about sex. I still haven't found a toy I like yet either.
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I don't masturbate as much as I used to. I am a 32 year old female that is very sexually closed off to where I don't want to have sex right now. I have issues with my body and I don't feel very beautiful. That being said, I masturbate about three or four times a week, or sometimes twice a day, and I am single and not having sex.
Sometimes I go through dry spells when I don't do it at all. It is up to every individual person I guess. I don't know if I was much help to answer your question but its honestly I don't know what category I fall in when it comes to this. __________________ Tales of Love, Motivation, and An Interesting Journey - Please Subscribe to my Website on WordPress: Inspired Odyssey's Path to Wellness and Love |
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I am a 39 yr old married female. I have no sex drive. I used to but the meds killed it. But still yet I do about twice a month.When planned correctly, I can avoid my meds and things work fairly well. I hove my toys they are all involve clitoral simulators. I use these with my H when It feels as if it "just ain't gonna happen". Sometimes I am so frustrated and exausted I don't even get the toys out, I just let my H have his fun.
But that was not your question, your question was how often. And my answer is 2 times a month max. I can go months with out, or as little as a few weeks. H and I try to make time for sex once a week. It is not the most rewarding thing for me. but he does kinda like it. ![]() |
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DrSkipper, do you have a sexual partner too?
PlatinumHeart, your reply was very useful, I'm just interested generally in how often people tend to give themselves pleasure. This is all great to find out as I was almost brought up to believe that women don't masturbate, and I'm 27, so it's not as if I'm from a distant generation! Although I of course saw through that misconception pretty early ![]() Thank you for your replies! |
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No, I am a virgin. I've never even had a boyfriend.
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I've only masturbated once in my life.
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I was brought up in a time where that was just forbidden. It was gross, nasty and dirty. And you were those things to if you touched there. I was also raised in a christian family. But I think choice of religion had little baring on this subject. It was just the times.
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Well, I tried it once but it wasn't much fun so I've never done it again.
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But yeah, I sometimes do it ALOT or not at all. Its so odd the way I work. I think the meds may have something to do with it too. __________________ Tales of Love, Motivation, and An Interesting Journey - Please Subscribe to my Website on WordPress: Inspired Odyssey's Path to Wellness and Love |
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Big Mama I see that you are a very generous person, lucky H
![]() Interesting points you made about the stigma against masturbation. Such a strange thing to have a stigma against too since you're not harming anyone and for many it is a pleasurable experience. I know that it's possible to become "addicted" to masturbation, in the sense that may do it so often that it interrupts the routine of one's life. But I don't think that's common. I wonder if anyone here has had that experience? Also, is it common for medication to interfere with a woman's sex drive? Is there specific medication that causes this? Does it affect women at specific ages? I don't hear guys talking about this much and I'm rather ignorant over certain matters of female sexuality. That's why being here is so interesting ![]() Skipper, sensible move perhaps. Waiting for Mr Right? ArmyGirl, how old are you out of interest? It's interesting that all the contributions have been from females so far, are women more open than guys on here or are there just more of you? Either way thanks for all the replies so far. |
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Zarathuastra, This forum is open to guys and girls. It appears that us females out number the males here at PC. If you are looking for a more male answers the men only forum is a good place for that. Females can read there but not post. Often things are posted in both forums so a better mix of audience is achieved.
I take zoloft for anxiety and depression, I don't know about other guys but a lot of the psy meds my brother in law has taken in the past have the same affect on his sex drive. I think it is a universal thing. Since mostly females answer here, it appears to be a largely female thing though it is not. |
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Zarathustra58, I'm 29.
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Hi Zarathustra.
![]() ![]() Big Mama is correct in that women significantly outnumber men on PC. A quick glance at the active user levels of the gender specific forums can illustrate that pretty well. ![]() I'm probably at a daily (or more aptly, nightly) or once every two days type of guy, erring towards the former. I'm a single, 20 year old male...lol explaining, perhaps, a lot of it. ![]() __________________ The world suffers alot. Not because of the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of good people.- Napoleon Bonaparte |
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Well here goes. I've been masturbating since I was very young, 4 or 5 years old, and I'm a 25 year old woman. This leaves me with 20 years of experience. I do it usually every day or every other day. Somewhere between 3-7 times a week. Been that way since I was a kid.
Also, I think it's the fanapt I'm on but sometimes I have trouble "getting there" and lately I've had some issues with being too dry. Probably the meds. But the drive is there. __________________ ![]() ![]() |
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I was 19. I do find it interesting that mostly girls are responding. I would've expected more guys to respond to this.
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When I was in a bipolar DBT group, we had lots of females and one male. Yet, bipolar affects both genders equally. It is females who seek support more. For the same reason, there are probably more women on here - it is purely self-selection bias.
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I started when I was about 18, would do it once a day, maybe every other day. It was interesting to me at first, but two years later I stopped enjoying it. It was still some time before I was able to tell myself that it was OK not to enjoy masturbating, so I stopped. My sex life is actually better because of it; there's no stressing about climaxing and I get to focus on the sensations that I really like.
For the record, I am asexual, agendered, and have had a greatly diminished libido since starting birth control for my endometriosis. I'm much happier with my low sex drive, actually. |
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