Should I tell

Is this gay porn you are watching, and that is why you feel so guilty? Which way do you swing?

I do not think that asking this question now is the best use of your time. Hopefully you will be spending time with others, and if not, you will then figure out if you want to watch porn. Then, not now - it is not an urgent issue.

It seems that an urgent enough matter is to understand why your usage of spoiled was offensive and what needs to be done after you realized that you unintentionally used a word that had an offensive nuance to its meaning.

This is not by way of criticism at all. I think we all see that you were not intentionally offensive, but that it takes so long to demonstrate to you that words need to be used more carefully is unusual. So maybe you do need skills training.

I don't think that's necessary. And no, I am not dismissing your post. I am just saying that mistakes can be made unintentionally and at times all it takes is an apology and some changes to that.

And that is so right... all it takes is an apology. Show me where the apology was in:

ohhhh. you got me there.