Ex bf came out to me as bisexual

I haven't seen this guy in years but we keep in touch via text. He and I dated briefly and weren't serious. But oddly enough we could talk to wag each other about anything. So last night he was all in a playful mood via text and he said he's bisexual. I had no idea! He always kinda had a kinky sense of humor but he totally came out!

Im so proud of him! I was also so honored he felt like he could tell me. He knows I'm bi too, even tho I lean more toward being straight. Anyhow, he's a cop and its all looked down upon, etc.

So besides being proud if him, I think at a huge turn on! He wants to know how to be with a guy but noone else knows so he can't talk to anyone about it. Wow, right? Is it weird that I think it's hot that he admitted he's attracted to guys and women?

Openness is a turn-on by itself, probably. He was open with you - that means that he trusts you with intimate information - it must feel good to be trusted this way. Should be enough of a turn-on.

Of course, there might be other reasons - I am just saying that it must feel nice be his confidante.

Yea that's probably true. I'm proud of him.