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#1
Aug 11, 2013, 01:36 AM
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By adult dating I mean of course purely physical relationships.
I am considering this because I think most women would reject me based on my lifestyle and lack of motivation in life but I think they might not reject me based on my looks and personality. Therefore I am looking at site like adult matchmaker, etc. What are your thoughts and experiences on this matter? |
 hamster-bamster, SeekingZen
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#2
Aug 11, 2013, 01:44 AM
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I do not have any experience, but the thought process that led you to consider this option IS logical.
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Aug 11, 2013, 02:33 AM
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When I'm manic I've used these sites and found most people are ok. Though I have met a few guys who want more than a one night stand. (I only want sex and nothing on-going when I'm manic) and keep contacting me for weeks after, but I've always stressed that it a once only event and a quick **** when I've met them.
It depends on what you want. But always play safe and negotiate the terms of the encounter before you meet. |
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#4
Aug 11, 2013, 12:22 PM
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You are an adult. You don't need our permission.
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Oct 06, 2013, 02:17 AM
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IllegalT,
What exactly is adult matchmaker? Is that the same as match? (I've never used these sites before). There's no judgment here, but wouldn't you rather get to know someone 1st? Why do you think most women would reject you based on your "lifestyle"? Sounds like you're being too hard on yourself. Best of luck & please let me know how it works out for you!  Quote:
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Oct 06, 2013, 07:43 AM
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I don't think women would accept me as a relationship person because I am sort of a loser. I don't have a job,or friends, or hobbies. At least with a shallow relationship that doesn't need to be as apparent or as important. So far i have met one or two women and have had varying degrees of sex with them. |
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Oct 06, 2013, 09:54 AM
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So it's like a hookup place for anonymous sex?
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Oct 06, 2013, 06:28 PM
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And that's safe?
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Oct 06, 2013, 06:31 PM
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Is that site only in Australia and the UK?
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Oct 07, 2013, 04:39 AM
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Yes i am pretty sure there would be sites like it in america. It might even be the case that that is where it started.
Is it safe? It's as safe as any anonymous sex is. i usually date them once or twice out in the open, and this is as much for their sense of security as mine. Then I will ask them out to a motel and i will have sex with them. |
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Oct 07, 2013, 08:54 PM
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So you've done it?
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#12
Oct 08, 2013, 01:26 AM
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This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
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