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Old Oct 08, 2013, 08:50 PM
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What is the longest you've gone without having sex or masturbating? Any kind of touching or so much as having an orgasm. What's the longest?

Or how long do you think you would last without breaking?

This includes watching porn.

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Old Oct 09, 2013, 07:04 AM
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Mmm ... about a week I think is the longest.
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Old Oct 09, 2013, 07:38 AM
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a couple of months bec of depression. Can women last longer than men? Isn't that a Seinfeld episode?
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Old Oct 09, 2013, 10:23 AM
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Sex? 20 years and counting. Granted, out of twenty total years alive, so...

As for...lol alone time? Maybe a week.
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Old Oct 09, 2013, 11:28 AM
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sex, a week. touching sexually, 6 hours. this is of course including relations with my spouse, not just by myself. If he were gone tomorrow, i'd last....a day? oh. I did forget until now, we went about 3 months after my kids were born without sex.
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Old Oct 09, 2013, 11:33 AM
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My longest is five years for all of them.
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Old Dec 06, 2013, 09:58 PM
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three and a half years, due to being overmedicated/abused/depressed

without these atrocities, a couple of days
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Old Dec 06, 2013, 10:07 PM
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18 years........when I finally realized how bad my marriage was even though I couldn't get a divorce.....I withdrew into my own part wing of my house & had nothing more to do with him.......then finally left 6 years ago & just now getting the divorce (which is taking me too long to actually finalize)......sex is just NOT something I really care about or need & I do not believe in sex outside of marriage....so that is NOT an option for me. I believe it's an expression of love between 2 people & not a one person thing either.......so that's just where I come from.
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Old Dec 06, 2013, 10:52 PM
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What is the longest you've gone without having sex or masturbating? Any kind of touching or so much as having an orgasm. What's the longest?

Or how long do you think you would last without breaking?

This includes watching porn.
I went 23 years before I learned how to masturbate successfully. I only ejaculated when i had a wet dream, and I was a virgin.

I actually knew how to masturbate already, but I hadn't tried it out to its completion.
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Old Dec 06, 2013, 11:35 PM
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Sex with a woman - 1 year is the record
Sex with myself - I have gone about 3 months once, I know because I wanted to see how long I could do it, same for porn.

I'm sure glad this is not another penis length thread as the title made me wonder.
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Old Dec 08, 2013, 08:40 PM
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What is the longest you've gone without having sex or masturbating? Any kind of touching or so much as having an orgasm. What's the longest?

Or how long do you think you would last without breaking?

This includes watching porn.
9 months. I was with my son's dad, pregnant, and miserable.
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Old Dec 08, 2013, 09:01 PM
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Sex: 31 years

Others: longest recently 2 weeks, probably as long as I could go without breaking.
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Old Dec 08, 2013, 11:51 PM
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16 months, that was 14 months post break up, and 2 months of reuniting...

How long can I go without?
Apparantly forever
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Old Dec 09, 2013, 01:03 AM
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Sex with a woman - 1 year is the record
Sex with myself - I have gone about 3 months once, I know because I wanted to see how long I could do it, same for porn.

I'm sure glad this is not another penis length thread as the title made me wonder.
AHAHAHAHAHAHA! This CRACKED me up!
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Old Dec 14, 2013, 12:27 AM
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My longest time would have to have been about two years . ..
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Old Dec 14, 2013, 12:40 AM
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Well I had some sort of beef about masturbation until I was 17. I desperately needed to take care of that by the time I was 14 though. I probably would have been a lot happier if I did.

Since I've been 17, the longest I've gone without masturbation has been about a week.

The longest I've gone without porn though is probably a few hours. The thing is that I just happen upon porn all the time. It just is all over my favorite websites. I'm not always actively seeking it out. Wait no I went for three weeks without it in the hospital when I had limited internet access and wasn't about to go on a website where porn might just show up in a very public venue.

And I'm a virgin so 20 years without sex.
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Old Jan 21, 2014, 08:41 PM
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One month and it felt about one month too long. I was just curious to see how long I could abstain form sex, masturbation and porn. Avoiding porn was easy but turning a blind eye to women. When I was abstaining, all the good looking women suddenly seemed to be everywhere around me. It's a cruel world
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Old Jan 22, 2014, 01:31 AM
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I've gone numerous years without both due to depression. Probably never longer than about 3 and a half years at a time. But when I get it regularly I make up for lost time.
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