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Old Oct 03, 2013, 05:14 PM
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I don't know what's worse, being told my fetish is an abomination or the 50 year olds who won't stop "requesting" or "enticing me" to be my slave. Seriously. Either my fetish is the most disturbing thing people claim they've ever seen or it's some 50 year old's dream come true, and then they go on and on trying to be all poetic about it.

Look away folks, this may be a little graphic:

"What really brings men to there knees is pics of women
like you in nylons and heels and powerful positions
and attitude. Seeing you in nylons and heels and leather
skirt and in authorty over me would keep me at your
feet as your sexslave and in your prison for life.
Nylons heels and foot worship are your first whip.
Your authorty in commands are second,
slave devotion will follow you if your pics summon
and demand worship at your feet,
Kneeling before you, head bowed.
and hands bound"

What do I even feel? I don't get people.
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Old Oct 03, 2013, 05:23 PM
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I can't imagine how isolating this must be for you. I don't think anyone announces their fetish expecting a boatload of support and partners who are game, but I have never come across another such as you doc, who's choices are, get ostracized or propositioned by creepy old dudes.

I wish I had a solution for you or even just proper advice, but all I can say I'm sorry this is such a harrowing experience, and I'm willing to listen if you want a non judgmental ear.

I really don't find anything "wrong" with your fetish, people are so narrowminded when it comes to certain topics *shakes head is dismay
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Old Oct 03, 2013, 05:28 PM
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I wish I had a normal fantasy that people could relate to. All my fantasies are beyond strange and I can't help it.
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Old Oct 03, 2013, 05:35 PM
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I have a headshot of me in my uniform as my default, but even without it, people would just see my age and my fetish and harass me. People are gross.
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Old Oct 03, 2013, 05:38 PM
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I was crying, begging, wishing I was normal last week. While not for the same reason, I do relate to wanting it, somethin I've never even entertained before. I was always so proud of being odd...

You shouldn't have to apologize for who you are, or what you like. I know you know this, you're one bloody smart and sassy chick, but still I say it because its true, and its inhumane that anyone expects you to.

Your thoughts aren't hurting anyone and anybody who claims different is beyond delusional. Unless of course you are some kind of X-Men member and that's your mutant power...
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Old Oct 03, 2013, 07:02 PM
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I understand the want to be normal, trust me. I've been mocked for things about me for days to weeks on end, and just pleaded to midair that I be normal. Your fetish is reasonable, its nothing out of the ordinary and not something people should pinpoint as something they can use as a joke. I feel for you in this situation, and I apologize on behalf of the rude incompetent people who made that comment(s). I don't have any advice for you, but I truly can relate. I hope it gets better for you from here, and if you ever need the insight of a teen, feel free to contact me. Have a nice day, and may your days be bright!
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Old Oct 03, 2013, 07:39 PM
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That is one of the most normal I've heard of
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Old Oct 04, 2013, 11:23 AM
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What is normal anyway? Don't let opinions get to ya Doc...what you do behind closed doors is your business. People will have their opinions. But I'm sure you've heard the analogy between opinions and a certain part of posterior anatomy...everyone has one.

As far as what's worse between people's opinion and the creepy 50 year olds? The 50 year olds. Definitely the 50 year olds.
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Old Oct 05, 2013, 06:01 PM
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IMHO, the BDSM world is supposed to be built on respect of one another, not tearing down another person bec if their fetishes. Everyone has them & it should be respected & accepted. I'm sorry your running into ignorant people DrSkipper. I think fetishes are very unique. I have some that will probably not see daylight, but there's lots of other people out there w/ unique fetishes.
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Old Oct 17, 2013, 02:18 PM
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DrSkipper... do you have a nice heavy flogger? :P

Oh, and your fetish is the weirdest creepiest thing ever. You should exploit me, and use me to fulfill your every whim *weg*
Thanks for this!
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Old Oct 17, 2013, 05:56 PM
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DrSkipper... do you have a nice heavy flogger? :P

Oh, and your fetish is the weirdest creepiest thing ever. You should exploit me, and use me to fulfill your every whim *weg*
Haven't seen you in a while...I miss you.

I do have a nice little flogger. I went crazy horny one time and spent a good 15 minutes just whipping myself in my undies. It felt amazing.

And didn't we agree that you were mine to exploit? If not, we could always start now.
Thanks for this!
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Old Oct 17, 2013, 08:02 PM
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Old Oct 18, 2013, 03:43 AM
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Haven't seen you in a while...I miss you.
I'm always in chat, you have my Skype handle, I always respond to forum PMs, and I miss you too.

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I do have a nice little flogger. I went crazy horny one time and spent a good 15 minutes just whipping myself in my undies. It felt amazing.
Haha, you're weird, er, I mean "flog me, flog me" - it'd better be nice and heavy and thuddy though

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And didn't we agree that you were mine to exploit? If not, we could always start now.
Not that I recall, but yes, we could always start now.
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Old Oct 18, 2013, 09:52 AM
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I'm always in chat, you have my Skype handle, I always respond to forum PMs, and I miss you too.
I don't do chat or skype, and I've been busy and not a big fan of PC at the moment.
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Old Oct 18, 2013, 01:55 PM
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maybe that's because you've not been missing me hugssssss
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Old Oct 18, 2013, 03:49 PM
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